J.LO Posted September 18, 2004 Share Posted September 18, 2004 Ok................... I like this guy and he is such a player! The thing is i really need your guys help, because you always seem to give great advice! Ok, he is getting worse and worse each day, and he will go and hang off all the other girls just to bug me. The thing is, is that he stares at me almost every chance he gets, and he doesnt stare at the girls he flirts with. And his friends are even starting to watch me now. Also, him and his friends will look at me, and then talk to each other. Also, the other day he sat beside me, and my friend said that his friend gave him thumbs up. Whats that supposed to mean??? The thing, is i ignored him, cuz he really pissed me off and he was alittle confused, but he knows why i ignored him. The thing is, how do i know if he likes me, or if he is just playing me, this has been going on for like a year. And i am afraid to ask him out, and all of a sudden his friends and even the girls he hangs with are watching me, and i caught them pointing to me the other day, one of my friends has the same problem as i do, and she needs the advice as much as i do, so please, if you have any ideas, besides going up and asking him out, can you help? Thanks! This means alot to me and my friend. The thing is he knows i get mad but he knows that somehow, he can sweet talk me, and make it so iam not so mad. Iam getting better at not falling for that though. And he gets mad if i talk to the other guys or flirt with them. He gives me a dirrty look, but i only do that once in a long while, he does it everyday! Please give me some advice, and thanks for taking the time and reading this!!!~~~ jennifer Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 If him and his friends talk and laugh about you, maybe they aren't saying nice things. This has been going on for a year? How old are you two? If it's been going on this long and he still seems like a player, maybe you should just forget about him. Why get into a relationship when you're pretty sure you'll get your heart broken. Link to post Share on other sites
Fetish 2 Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 Play his game with him. Give him a taste of his own medicine and see how he reacts. If he knows he can get away with whatever he does by sweet talking you ofcourse he's going to continue doing it if he knows he can just sweet talk his way back into your heart. Play a little hard to get and don't show that his actions get to you.... The more he can;t have something the more he'll want it. You said youre getting better at not falling for his sweet talking anymore--Keep working at it! Goodluck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author J.LO Posted September 19, 2004 Author Share Posted September 19, 2004 I dont know if they arent saying nice things or not, but they arent laughing at me, they are pointing and talking about me. All of a sudden they keep stareing. I think his friends know something. Sometimes i think that maybe he does like me, cuz just by the way he acts. We are both 15. I am playing his game, the thing is if i tick him off, he has to get me back worse. And i really want to just tell him i like him, but i just cant do that yet. I just was hoping he actually did like me, instead of playing me. I really like the guy. Hes different from other guys, and he is nice. I have a hard time starting a conversation sometimes, cuz iam worried of what he thinks about me. And even though he flirts with the other girls, he always makes sure i know perfectly clear that he doesnt like them, cuz he tells me, or yells it out loud. And he even has how he just hangs around them to me, and he likes when girls make the first move. Which i suck at that! So, thanks for your advice!!! If you have any other ideas please tell me!!! They are great!!!! Jennifer Link to post Share on other sites
Author J.LO Posted September 19, 2004 Author Share Posted September 19, 2004 Oh, and when the girls are talking about me, they dont talk about me when the guy i like is around, they make sure hes gone. And also, his guy friend was the one that pointed at me to all the girls in his group. It was soooooo strange! In away i really do think its more then just a game, of all the things he did. Its just weird. And he did give me lots of hints, like his stareing, and once in a while the flirting and the way he gives me dirrty looks if i look at another guy or flirt with him to tick him off, and there is a few more things. Also, my friend sees him looking at me, and he knows that. And when he looks at me and i talk to my friend, he just smiles and knows that iam talking about him. Thanks for listening!!! Jennifer Link to post Share on other sites
re3rocks Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 i know this type of guy. he probably looks down on you, makes fun of u, and probably wants to do you. thats all he wants. well, thats what i think Link to post Share on other sites
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