unsureofthings Posted September 18, 2004 Share Posted September 18, 2004 Hey guys.....what should I do? My wife and I of only 11 months have been seperated now for about 6 weeks or so. We were fighting so much near the end that I was all for it and couldnt wait for her to leave. A week later I broke down and called, feeding her ears with everything she wanted to hear. IT's all my fault, I'll change this and I'll improve on that out of desperatoin. She told me she'd think about it and we havent contact eachother since. That was about 4 weeks ago or so. Here is my situation. Monday is our 1 year anniversary and I just cant let the day go by unoticed? I think I should send a card simply saying "thinking about you and miss you". What to do guys think I should do? Another thing is that she's so stubborn and full of pride. Even if she wanted to call me today she wouldnt out of stubborness and pride. It's been 6 weeks now...isnt this enought time to know what you want? It's killing me not to call her and I'm going nuts. Should I just call and keep it casual? Ask her for coffee? Give her ultamatums? I dont know? Thanks.... Link to post Share on other sites
shay Posted September 18, 2004 Share Posted September 18, 2004 Follow your heart. If you love this woman contact her. The only way you will know if it is meant to be is if you tried. You will feel a lot better knowing that you did make the effort to contact her. No you should not ignore the date. Call her and you don't have to beat around the bush, let her know you are calling because you miss her and because it is your anniversary. If it does not work you can at least say you tried to get your wife back. Link to post Share on other sites
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