Mutual Attraction

[pbjbear]

The post is very superficial. Who cares if non attractive men oogle at you. Men are very shallow creatures you cannot expect much else out of them. They live and breathe for women's beauty, ****ability and their own egos.

 

It prob. just hasnt happened for you yet. A guy just posted the same situation as this with genders flopped.

[Sith Apprentice]

Be more proactive. Initiate conversations. You can't expect someone to magically fall into your lap while you sit around and do nothing.

[pbjbear]

OP

 

I want add that you sound HOT. **** all these men calling you cute. I notice short women with killer bods are rarely referred to as hot. You are SEXY not cute.

[outsidethebox]

That would be the mean conclusion. Ninja and Yookie had a good explanation for OP.

[SJC2008]

OP

 

I want add that you sound HOT. **** all these men calling you cute. I notice short women with killer bods are rarely referred to as hot. You are SEXY not cute.

 

I agree with you about the cute comments, she's attractive like I said. I'm not gonna budge about my height comments. She's 4 inches shorther than the average woman in the US, she is the female counterpart of a 5'5" man and her pool will be narrower just as it is for a 5'5" man.

[outsidethebox]

This is true.

[Ninjainpajamas]

OP

 

I want add that you sound HOT. **** all these men calling you cute. I notice short women with killer bods are rarely referred to as hot. You are SEXY not cute.

 

I agree with you about the cute comments, she's attractive like I said. I'm not gonna budge about my height comments. She's 4 inches shorther than the average woman in the US, she is the female counterpart of a 5'5" man and her pool will be narrower just as it is for a 5'5" man.

 

Let's try not to make this all about her looks...just because she has pictures and a description of herself. I think it's safe to say that she's not unattractive. Whether someone finds her hot, cute, average or whatever is just subjective. Cute isn't even a bad word in my book, sometimes the cute girl is more attractive than the typical looking hot girl, it just depends on the person and her other qualities, at least to me.

 

In fact there are many "beautiful" women who are not really stimulating to men, they might have the right eye-lashes, eye-color, hair, and skin tone and all that crap to other women, but for men we see the whole package, she might not even stand out to us.

 

Same goes with height, personally I am completely indifferent to height for the most part being 6'1, as long as she's not doing that wobbly side to side midget walk or an enormous height and length that I may find unappealing, what difference does it make to me? I've never really even thought about how tall I'd like a woman to be, she's either attractive to me or not. I think that may be a luxury of being taller however, it's not something I have to think about.

 

I think if she sees a guy that is attractive, then she needs to make a gesture or show an indication of interest. She might just have to do a little more than with the typical fawning over her guy, who might think she's the hottest thing at the gas station. A man who is desirable or even "hot", is obviously not going to have to join the crowd, because he can actually sleep with those kind of women, it's not that big of a deal to him as those other guys who don't really have options, unless of course he's shy and insecure and many women would be happy to oblige him anyway in that department just because he's "hot".

[youngnlove89]

You sound cute from your description/pic, but it's honestly not that hard to turn the heads of average guys.

 

Any guy who's had success with women also knows not to show too much interest himself. Those average guys know they're not going to get anywhere, they can just gawk and make comments amongst each other and show an overbearing level of attention, to them you might be a ten even (at least compared to what's available to them).

 

A guy who's confident and better looking is going to have more room to be selective, and he also might not want to join the pack in drooling men over you (it's noticeable even to guys). He'll just either ignore you or give you a minimal amount of attention if any, it's better to walk in to a place and not give the "hot" girl in that situation any more attention than she's already getting, unless he really feels like making a move, but that's definitely not ideal because she's already thinking a lot of herself or is validated at least in her appeal...but honestly the attention is usually way overkill from those kind of guys.

 

I've walked into those situations myself and noticed men drooling over the girl, but not because she was necessarily great looking, but because she had some low cut skirt on or sexy dress/outfit, she was just all made up and they were all giddy and excited over it...personally I felt the girl was average but dressed to impress, so I understood the attention, but overall she wasn't my type even though she looked good. I felt like she was getting an overbearing amount of attention for it, even though she didn't want it, I've had women express that to me before and feel really uncomfortable over it (regarding these men).

 

But it works the same way for guys sometimes, you're looking at someone across the room that you find attractive waiting to see if you connect eyes, and then this...."thing" you don't even notice because you're distracted, comes up to you and starts talking to you blocking your whole view and then THATS the exact damn time the other damn girl looks back at you seeing you talk to this person. This girls got hot cheetos breathe, she's short and way too overweight to be wearing "that" but she thinks she looks "hot" because her tatas (breast) are pouring out, she's got way too much make-up on trying to bring out the color of her "eyes", her feet are pouring over the sides of her two sizes too small gladiator sandals (which are totally out of style now), and she's like trying to chat you up, so you're polite and then move on.

 

You end up talking to this other girl you were trying to talk to in the first place and what does she say? "Oh so, is that your GF you were talking to over there?"

 

 

Absolutely true.

 

I went out last night with some friends and there was this hubba hunk who was one of the bartenders there. It's all is superficial, I understand that. I'm not looking for my one and only at a bar, but he was buff, handsome and beautiful at the same time. It's fun to go to a bar and flirt with strangers. Especially after a few drinks He kept eyeing me and I kept eyeing him. I started talking to one of his co-workers and he was telling me how that guy I was checking out had a girlfriend back at home. Been together for a year and half. I was shocked. This guy clearly was eye-f*cking me and definitely was given me every sign he was interested. Then I find out he had a girlfriend. I felt bad for her and I no longer made contact with him anymore.

 

I remember walking by him later and he brushed my shoulder and was bluntly trying to get my attention, but I kept walking and ignored him. I'm sure he was confused as to why I wasn't gawking at him anymore.

 

Maybe all the guys that I'm "attracted" to are just buttholes.

[youngnlove89]

OP

 

I want add that you sound HOT. **** all these men calling you cute. I notice short women with killer bods are rarely referred to as hot. You are SEXY not cute.

 

Well. gee, thank you. I am almost always referenced as cute and adorable. Probably because I am short. It's nice to hear a change once in awhile.

[youngnlove89]

Because other woman look better? That;s all I can come up with

 

haha. AH HAH! Bingo.

[youngnlove89]

I agree with you about the cute comments, she's attractive like I said. I'm not gonna budge about my height comments. She's 4 inches shorther than the average woman in the US, she is the female counterpart of a 5'5" man and her pool will be narrower just as it is for a 5'5" man.

 

Hey, I don't mind. We are attracted to what we are attracted to. No offense taken at all. I don't necessarily go for short men myself (even though it would make sense) I've only dated men taller than 5'10 and once dated a guy who was 6'7!! He loved that I was short. Easier to spin....oh goodness, I didn't say that.

 

Bad me.

[youngnlove89]

Let's try not to make this all about her looks...just because she has pictures and a description of herself. I think it's safe to say that she's not unattractive. Whether someone finds her hot, cute, average or whatever is just subjective. Cute isn't even a bad word in my book, sometimes the cute girl is more attractive than the typical looking hot girl, it just depends on the person and her other qualities, at least to me.

 

In fact there are many "beautiful" women who are not really stimulating to men, they might have the right eye-lashes, eye-color, hair, and skin tone and all that crap to other women, but for men we see the whole package, she might not even stand out to us.

 

Same goes with height, personally I am completely indifferent to height for the most part being 6'1, as long as she's not doing that wobbly side to side midget walk or an enormous height and length that I may find unappealing, what difference does it make to me? I've never really even thought about how tall I'd like a woman to be, she's either attractive to me or not. I think that may be a luxury of being taller however, it's not something I have to think about.

 

I think if she sees a guy that is attractive, then she needs to make a gesture or show an indication of interest. She might just have to do a little more than with the typical fawning over her guy, who might think she's the hottest thing at the gas station. A man who is desirable or even "hot", is obviously not going to have to join the crowd, because he can actually sleep with those kind of women, it's not that big of a deal to him as those other guys who don't really have options, unless of course he's shy and insecure and many women would be happy to oblige him anyway in that department just because he's "hot".

 

 

P.S. I wore heels last night and this guy asked how tall I was and I said "guess" and he said, "5'6?"

 

I may be short...I'm 5 foot and A HALF actually (I think guys should be pretty impressed that I consider half inches very important when measuring things) but I carry myself well and I've never had a guy say it was a problem that I was the height I am.

 

I'm fun sized