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Really thinking that I am not good enough to date consistently??


cdeyoung

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Okay, well... it seems that all of the girls who I have been involved with have only used me for a piece of meat.

 

1. The girl in August of 2011 used me for sex...

2. My ex girlfriend used me for sex, and a place to live (she left April 10th, 2011)

3. Friday night a girl that texted me back and forth for an entire week, who made it VERY CLEAR that she wanted more than just a booty call/friends, used me for sex. She came to my place, had sex with me, then sent me a text message an hour later saying that she just "wants to be friends" because she just recently (two weeks ago) got out of a two year relationship, and that "by being with somebody else, I realized I wasn't ready for another relationship. Sorry."

 

I am starting to think that I am simply not good enough, as all of the girls that have been attracted to me just wanted my member... and it bothers me, because I am often the one who is looking for more than just that; in fact, I didn't even want to have sex on our first date, but it was a while for me, and I thought "What the hell?".

 

What is some advice? I am really thinking about giving up trying to find a relationship at all, and just thinking on focusing on the "just sex" aspect of things... because that is the only thing that I ever seem to get out of any girl who I talk to.

 

Any advice?

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