Crazy limbo ride Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 Hey everybody! I’m a bit confused about a certain situation in my life and would be eternally grateful if anyone of you would offer any kind of advice. I’ve known this girl for a couple of years now and although we don’t see much of each other we’re always happy and thrilled when we finally meet to catch up. We talk and laugh, cuddle and make fun of each other, etc. Somewhere in the last couple of months I’ve fallen madly in love with this girl. Since she was in another relationship at that time, I’ve let it go and didn’t make any moves that would show her how my feelings for her have changed. When her relationship ended I’ve decided to make a move and invited her to a date in London (we live in another part of Europe). I’ve had some business to take care over there and I remembered a dream she once told me about where we were on an airplane to Great Britain and were madly in love. I thought ‘making this dream come true’ might be a great way to show and tell her how I feel about her. At first she was enthusiastic and decided we should go, but just a day before the flight she called me to say she changed her mind and that her ex-boyfriend would not approve. I was pissed at this and didn’t bother to dig into what her ex-boyfriend has to do with anything. After that we didn’t really see each other. We talked once or twice over the phone and that was it. Last week we met for the first time after a couple of months in a group of mutual friends. We had a great time, but never talked about that trip or “us” and there was a kind of distance between us that wasn’t there before. Not like any of us two would have a bad feeling about the other person. It was just like we both weren’t that relaxed and open to each other as before. She left for France today and won’t be back for at least a month. In the meantime I’m agonizing this situation to no avail. What should I do? What can I do? I don’t want to **** up the friendship I have with her, but then again I want us to move on to something more. Right now, I feel I’m in a limbo and I need your advice people! Thanks! Michael Link to post Share on other sites
mighty bop Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 She is obviously still not over the ex. Chris Link to post Share on other sites
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