netrie Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 He acts "addicted" to me and I am thinking that we are both addicted. Maybe even codependent. Although I initiated the NC for 5 weeks now, (i was feeling emotionally overwhelmed by him) ===== yesterday out of the blue, I emailed him to say Hi. He replied minutes later quickly about how he fantasizes about me and him and it seems more sexual... and he asked how I am too. I suppose a part of me is afraid emotionally to get hurt but yet I still feel "attached" to him even as time goes by and it never fades really. I thought the NC would make me not think of him over time but all of a sudden I am thinking of him too much. He wants me to make a move--I can see this now but my email was on a whim. I dont know what to do. I think he could be using me but the "sex" thing seems so confusing that he cannot get enough of me and even after I break up with him he still is sexually turned on by me... I mean most people would NOT be so quick to want to have sex with someone that breaks away... Link to post Share on other sites
mighty bop Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 Don't do it, you will regret it. Chris Link to post Share on other sites
j_nelson Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 Do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author netrie Posted September 19, 2004 Author Share Posted September 19, 2004 Originally posted by j_nelson Do it. Tell me more about WHY I should or why anyone who "loves" ----------- did you go through this too? Link to post Share on other sites
mighty bop Posted September 20, 2004 Share Posted September 20, 2004 Like I said before, I wouldn't do it if I were you. You wouldn't either if you consider yourself to have a good conscience Chris Link to post Share on other sites
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