Why does my ex want to continue sex with me even though we are broken up?

[netrie]

He acts "addicted" to me and I am thinking that we are both addicted. Maybe even codependent.

 

Although I initiated the NC for 5 weeks now, (i was feeling emotionally overwhelmed by him) =====

yesterday out of the blue, I emailed him to say Hi. He replied minutes later quickly about how he fantasizes about me and him and it seems more sexual... and he asked how I am too.

 

I suppose a part of me is afraid emotionally to get hurt but yet I still feel "attached" to him even as time goes by and it never fades really. I thought the NC would make me not think of him over time but all of a sudden I am thinking of him too much.

 

He wants me to make a move--I can see this now but my email was on a whim. I dont know what to do.

 

I think he could be using me but the "sex" thing seems so confusing that he cannot get enough of me and even after I break up with him he still is sexually turned on by me...

 

I mean most people would NOT be so quick to want to have sex with someone that breaks away...

[mighty bop]

Don't do it, you will regret it.

 

Chris

[j_nelson]

Do it.

[netrie]

Originally posted by j_nelson

Do it.

 

 

Tell me more about WHY I should or why anyone who "loves" ----------- did you go through this too?

[mighty bop]

Like I said before, I wouldn't do it if I were you. You wouldn't either if you consider yourself to have a good conscience

 

Chris