Frank13 Posted May 19, 2013 Share Posted May 19, 2013 (edited) This girl is not serious about getting back with you. Isn't it obvious by this - She wants me back and says she will do what it takes to get me back. She does want to get back together. I told her I was not going to do that unless she showed me she was serious, proved to me that she could trust in us and earn that trust and be able to give it. Truly start over from absolute square one and not fall back into the same routines. She said she couldn't give me all that right now. Didn't anyone else catch this giant red flag? She went from she'll "do whatever it takes to get him back" to she "couldn't give me all that right now". You didn't ask for the world. Your requests were very reasonable, yet the girl who said she "will do what it takes to get you back", can't do the simple and most reasonable things to make it happen. She is saying she wants to Ef other guys and have you as a back up plan or she is lonely and wants you around until she finds the next new guy to Ef. At least she was honest about it. Part of me is thinking that maybe she called me to SEE if she COULD get me back and now that she knows I do want her back, it's goodbye again. You are very wise. This is exactly what is happening. Ego is tied in with love and relationships. We want what we can't have and don't want what we can have. She was looking for an ego stroke to validate her self worth while looking for the next guy. You gave it to her. You keep feeding her ego with texts and you see the result. No reply to other than a couple. Go NC and don't look back, no matter how much she might chase you. You now know what she is all about. Edited May 19, 2013 by Frank13 Link to post Share on other sites
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