Tony T Posted December 6, 2000 Share Posted December 6, 2000 Until you are in a committed relationship with someone, that other person is pretty free to conduct themselves as they wish. You are also not in any way entitled to the information she has given you. She gave it to you as a courtesy and it's not fair to judge her as a result. As long as she has been faithful and truthful with you during the committed part of your relationship, that's all she is responsible for. I don't see that she did anything so terrible. Surely, you don't like the idea that your lady was sleeping with someone in the initial stages of your dating but don't be so damned naive. It happens EVERY day. If you love her and if you are happy with all other aspects of the relationship, get over it. If she has let all her secrets out and is being honest with you, sounds good to me. Now, if you can't handle the truth, then why the hell should she be honest with you. If you can't accept what she did in her past, if it's going to eat on you, let her go so she can find a man mature enough to be able to handle it. Link to post Share on other sites
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