Jai Posted September 20, 2004 Share Posted September 20, 2004 Hello everyone, Just to give everyone a brief overview on the situation I will give you my story. Firstly I am 25 and my ex is 21. We were together for 5 1/2 years and had an amazing loving relationship. I would do anything for this girl....I feelshe is my soulmate. We broke up about 3 monthes ago. She was getting lonely as I was working a lot and became interested in another guy so she broke up with me and started dating this other guy. Well for the first little while she did not want to speak to me very much as there were some very bad vibes at the time. We kind of had contact on and off and I try not to ask about the new guy too much. For the past week we have been on good terms and chatting more friendly. The last time we spoke I asked how it was going with the new guy and she said fine. I asked "Just fine...I figured you would be really great" and she says nope just fine. Obviously this new man is not quite what she was looking for in a partner. Anyways so we chatted for a bit about what has been going on in our lives and such and I really feel we were starting to connect again. Now I saw her lastnight. I had left her a message on her cell telling her I wanted to give her something back which I had taken from her. I wanted to give her back the ring I gave her. I figured it was not mine to have and she did deserve it more than me. She never called me back but what was weird was that I saw her driving on my way home so I gave her the high beams and she pulled over. I went up to the truck and said hi and handed her the ring. She gave me a million reasons to not take it back but in the end she ended up taking it back. We chatted for a but and I told her that she looked good and she told me the same. I said that it has been a long time and that i really missed her. She said don't do this Jai and I said that I was telling her because it was true and she responded I Know. We chatted a little bit longer then I let her get home as she had a lot of work to do. As I was leaving I said it was great seeing you again and she said the same. There was one thing though....the whole time we were talking, the way she was looking at me and I at her was just like when we were still together and she kept asking why I am looking at her like that but yet she was looking into my eyes the same way. I am not too sure what is going on but if anyone can help me decode it a bit that would be awesome. Maybe someone with similar situations or ladies who have broken up with a long term boyfriend who wanted them back. Are these signs? Jai Link to post Share on other sites
YellowLioness Posted September 20, 2004 Share Posted September 20, 2004 She said don't do this Jai No, I don't think she wants you back, hon. I think she's ready to go her own way, and I think that you should also go yours. I know you love her, and that she'll always have a special place in your heart, and you for her, but that doesn't mean that she wants to be together. You all have so much history together, and I'm sure she does miss you. Again, that doesn't mean that she wants to get back together. I'd live by the no contact rule, and go out on dates with other people. Link to post Share on other sites
crazydawg Posted September 20, 2004 Share Posted September 20, 2004 dont believe in the mixed signals. I was there and today i cursed my ex out for doing that do me. Link to post Share on other sites
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