re3rocks Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 will i ever meet another person like her. i duno what it was, but whenever i talked with her, even a hello, i was sooooo hapy. i dont know what it was, i was just sooo happy around her. it was bad ass. so yeah. now im screwed, wit her avoidin me and ****. atleast tell me off! i cant move on until i understand everything she did to me throuhgt HS. but she wont talk to me. i tryd to forget, but it makes me think of her even more and more. i even tried drinkin sake, but it dosnt calm me down. cant take this, she wont return my calls. hmm, wtf man, if some1 asked me out id be flatterd!! Link to post Share on other sites
backspn Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 I can tell you how to get her to come back but it takes work on your part.....ignore her. It works my friend. Does she have your phone number? Dont contact her ANYMORE....until she contacts you. She wants space away from you and she is too scared to tell you. She probably still cares about you but is denying it inside her mind. Do not contact her and in 30 days she will call you....I guarantee it. This is the hardest thing you will ever do but she will come back. If you keep calling her you will make her mad and she will never come back. Trust me. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 will i ever meet another person like her. \ Never, everyone is unique. i dont know what it was, i was just sooo happy around her. it was bad ass. so yeah. now im screwed Not being happy when your S/O is not around you, is a sign of an unhealthy relationship. You have to learn how to be independent. she wont return my calls. hmm, wtf man, if some1 asked me out id be flatterd!! Would you also be flattered if someone harassed you? Leave her alone, she does not want you right now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author re3rocks Posted September 22, 2004 Author Share Posted September 22, 2004 but it seems impossible to forget. im scared to forget., i gonna be patient and try backspn's method. i just wana rant! ive been so dumb. she definetly liked me. at least for a period of time. i was so dumb, i was so nervous around and gave the wrong signals. now i rregret it with all my mind and am mad at myself for hurtin me and her. and now im confused as to if she still sees me or not. i meen, she not returning my calls can mean 2 things. one, she hates me or is mad at me for not doin anythin, or thinks im a stalker, or is too shocked. wtf! it so confusing. i duno what to do, should i wait like backspn said??? if it dosnt turn out, how do u get over some1? how long does it take? have any pointer? Link to post Share on other sites
dugs Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 my friend, all I can say is that if you take backspn's advice and just try and not call her or anything like that it will work out better for you in the end. Not only will you have your dignity but she will see you in a better light with much more respect than if you continue to look like a weak individual. remember, distance makes the heart grow fonder... Link to post Share on other sites
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