LittleMiss Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 Originally posted by veronese I know for a fact though that marijuana/skunk etc. really don't mix well with alcohol. Do one or the other, not both I can vouch for that! One night after I drank two bottles of boones farm coolers I smoked with some friends. I got so messed up that I threw up on myself and I couldn't even move. My friends tried to help me out of a car and I fell flat on my face. They put me in the shower to try and snap me out of it and I fell again. That was a terrible night. Never Again!! Link to post Share on other sites
veronese Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 I can't say for certain how much cocaine would slow down your love life, but my guess would be that if it was used just at weekends, it would probably liven things up rather than quieten things down. I think a dependency on the drug is when your love life deteriorates. Anyone using on a daily, every other day basis has got a problem [i speak from experience unfortunately!] Link to post Share on other sites
YellowLioness Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 Lioness you're lucky your fiance doesn't want you to use coke, for your own good please stay away from it. Honestly, I've been curious about it, but W keeps telling me that its better to be curious then to know. I drank two bottles of boones farm coolers There was your problem, Tabitha. lol. Link to post Share on other sites
veronese Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 I forgot to say something - it's not something you should pursue, good sex or not. It may not be physically addictive but if you experiment with it you are taking a huge gamble. Not every person who drinks alcohol will become an alcoholic, likewise experimenting with cocaine does not necessarily lead to a dangerous dependency. But why take the risk? Truthfully, it's not actually worth it. It does some very strange things to your mind! Link to post Share on other sites
Taken_Angel Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 Honestly, I've been curious about it, but W keeps telling me that its better to be curious then to know. You're fiance LOVES you very much and with him using and burning out on it before you really should listen to him. You're better off NOT trying it. You know as they say "curiousity killed the cat" Not every person who drinks alcohol will become an alcoholic, likewise experimenting with cocaine does not necessarily lead to a dangerous dependency. But why take the risk? Truthfully, it's not actually worth it. It does some very strange things to your mind! I agree with this too....I just hope that no one would try this because it is such an ugly thing! It isn't worth "trying just to know what it's like" Link to post Share on other sites
Author melina Posted September 21, 2004 Author Share Posted September 21, 2004 Hi Taken Angel Why are you saying "it's such an ugly thing?" What is your experience? Link to post Share on other sites
Taken_Angel Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 Coke is a bad bad drug, (Since no one really knows me I guess I can reveal the truth) I was addicted to cocaine badly for 2 years. My father was also. I've been clean now but honestly it's a hard drug to escape...I have slipped up (relapsed) a couple of times. It started out as "once in awhile" I liked weed too, wasn't "addicted" but once in awhile when it wasn't available I used coke, I tried it up the nose first but people (friends of my ex) would bring the smokeable kind over more. (crack, actually free base cocaine (coke cooked w/ baking soda) I started smoking everyday with them for the hell of it. It was there and I never felt I needed it for almost 2 1/2 months. I regretted doing it and knew I needed to stop so I left the situation and came back home. I realized just how addicted I was once I was home, I started making trips to where I used to live in order to get my "fix" It came to be where I was spending (I swear) about 200 dollars a time, usually friday's (sometimes 80 dollars every single day), I was so addicted I sold all my sister's electronics, movies, ect to fund my usage...finally without professional help I got it under control. I even continued to use after leaving my ex.... Anyway I don't use anymore in the past 2 years I've used 4 times (this is bad but no where as bad as before) but in the past 9 months I"ve been totally clean. It makes it hard when you see your "buddy" who always says "come on, i miss ya, here's some for free for old time's sake" but anyway I am staying clean now so I don't end up dead or really unable to leave it alone! So to those who say "coke is okay in moderation" I say "stop dipping your hands in the pool before you fall in head first and are unable to swim, so you'll end up drowning" I posted this earlier...for my own personal experience (and several people I know even who used in moderation (once a month or so) it became a nightmare that was almost impossible to "wake up" from.... Link to post Share on other sites
Fayebelle Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 This link can give you a few personal stories that show how bad drugs, including cocaine, can be. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t38500/?highlight=Fayebelle+drugs My drug story is on here as well but personally- my worst experiance w/cocaine was when my father was high on it and shot himself. Worth experimenting? Worth a chance at "good sex"? I don't think so. I was dumb enough to go down this road before too. Trust me - avoidance is better than crawling your way from the bottom of a personal hell. Link to post Share on other sites
fredrolin Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 Originally posted by YellowLioness No need to talk down to me, dear. I'm not 5. I'm perfectly capable of understanding your point, while not agreeing with you. Just because I don't agree with you doesn't make me stupid. How did I talk down to you? I quoted you in my post, I wasn't answering you. I said "you get my point" instead of going on and on with examples. Boy, some people are so defensive and sensitive. Link to post Share on other sites
YellowLioness Posted September 21, 2004 Share Posted September 21, 2004 Boy, some people are so defensive and sensitive Sorry 'bout that. I'm peevish because I've had a really awful week. Please don't take it personally. I think I just read your post wrong. I'm actually considering posting in the "friends" forum for advice. Link to post Share on other sites
milleniumd Posted September 26, 2004 Share Posted September 26, 2004 Hello there. I used cocaine for several years before my friends decided on mass that unless I gave it up they would have nothing to do with me. A spell in the Priory and some heart breaking confessions followed but I have now been 'clean' for over 2 years and never felt better. I must admit though that when I was on Coke I was an unpredictable even to myself. I didnt care that I had a girlfriend and ruined at least 2 good relationships with my behaviour. The coke made me confident and when Im confident I attract girls. It made me so lusty that I just couldnt control myself. I would just stroll over to a girl and think I was the bees knees. I was probably a complete wan*er but when I went into a club on charlie I thought everyone was there to see me. Pathetic. Anyone who takes coke tells lies and cannot account for all of their actions or behaviour. I would distract anyone from taking it who now feels thay need it especially if they were my partner. Everyone I know who does the substance cannot be relied on to tell the complete truth. I dont want to frighten you with my beliefs but they are based on a lot of evidence and a lot of hurt. I would ask your partner to stop taking it. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Stellar Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 No, cocaine doesn't make anyone unfaithful. Nothing makes anyone unfaithful. People are unfaithful of their own accord. Coke doesn't alter your perceptions - you still have your wits about you and are as mentally alert as you were before you had any charlie. It probably does make some people horny (I've found that speed does that to me) but I've never cheated because (a) I know how awful infidelity feels; and (b) if you can't trust yourself, how can you trust anyone else? If someone is going to cheat, they'll do it regardless of whether or not they have any drugs or alcohol in their system. I don't know about you, but I'm sick to death of people blaming their mistakes and screw-ups on drugs/alcohol/peer pressure/'the devil made me do it' when they should just bloody accept responsibility for their own actions. I've tried coke, and I don't understand what's so great about it. I couldn't care less if I never had it again. It didn't make me horny at all, and I was with a guy at the time who I was dying to shag! It made me very chatty (which I am normally anyway). If anything, I had a 10 minute confidence boost whenever I had a line . Then I'd have another line and be confident for about 10 minutes and so and so on. Coming down was very rough though. It really messed with my head, and that of the guy I was with. Then along came 'Suicide Tuesday' and I'd never felt so down in my life. It's absolutely not worth it. Listen to your boyfriend and DON'T try it. I'm glad it did nothing for me, because it can so easily become a very expensive habit that f***s with your head, your finances, your relationships and your health. I know a lady whose friend has a coke habit and now is suffering from 'coke bloat' - her face and body have bloated. Ugh...who needs that?? Link to post Share on other sites
milleniumd Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Sure, I know where you are coming from but I have to disagree. I have done it, I know others who have done it. I am only speaking from experience. Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 "Cocaine can be addictive if used enough." Can be? If used enough? Cocaine is addictive right off the bat! Even if you use it "occasionally", you run a HUGE risk of dying from total heart failure on each of those "occasions". Cocaine is EXTREMELY addictive. Link to post Share on other sites
Nik Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Hi I have been doing cocaine on a few occasions but always with my boyfriend around. My experience: kissing, dancing and sex is undescribable. We usually kiss for hours and everything feels very intense. I am not interested in doing coke by myself or with my friends. Just a question: would you say that cocaine makes you want to two-time, resp. "jump on people". Or how do you experience it? I mean in comparison with alcohol, dope, exstacy? Which one holds the greates danger of forgetting everything around you and fool around outside your relationship? Or is it as simple as: "if you do not intend to two-time, you won't with or without cocaine!" Maybe it's a childish question but still interesting! Thank you! To respond to your question, no drug makes you do anything that you haven't already thought about doing. I personally have been clean for 60 days...coke will take you before you have a chance for it not to. I also lived with a drug dealer (someone said they did from another quote) My habit was outrageous, it was at the worst $500.00 a day but when your up for 4-5 days in a row it can become a whole lot more, my advice is to not even try it, but since you have, Cocaine is one of those things in life that you just can't control, I have been in rehab and met alot of people the USED to do coke I have yet to meet anyone that still does it and has their life under control, such as a job, family and friends, it's an isolating drug so good luck & be careful! Link to post Share on other sites
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