Got it Posted May 15, 2013 Share Posted May 15, 2013 What do you mean? Link to post Share on other sites
cocorico Posted May 15, 2013 Share Posted May 15, 2013 For those who ended up together, who initiated that step? We both did. We realised we had fallen in love. I discovered he had been exclusive with me throughout, and I had become exclusive with him, and we decided we wanted to be together full-time. This required that he D, that at least one of us relocate, and several other changes. We each had a "to-do" list which we set about doing, and then we got M. We both took ownership of the decision, and we each took ownership of what we needed to do, and we both did what was on our list. Link to post Share on other sites
KeepMeInMind Posted May 16, 2013 Share Posted May 16, 2013 We both did. We realised we had fallen in love. I discovered he had been exclusive with me throughout, and I had become exclusive with him, and we decided we wanted to be together full-time. This required that he D, that at least one of us relocate, and several other changes. We each had a "to-do" list which we set about doing, and then we got M. We both took ownership of the decision, and we each took ownership of what we needed to do, and we both did what was on our list. Same here, even though we didn't end up together ("yet"). Had I known how difficult it was going to be for him (he seemed so sure, so confident), I would have had him do things ahead of time like I was doing. I rented a storage unit. I was moving some of my belongings out of my marital home into storage a little at a time. Also, I was moving to his location bc of his business. He didn't really have to do much ahead of time, so it was all in his face all at once. (Not making excuses for him, at all..just saying..) Here I was in this new, exciting life in this new, exciting town, so happy, and he was stuck in this same town he built this life with this woman who did nothing wrong.. Link to post Share on other sites
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