bellasue Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 I was reading another thread about someone who was having dreams about their xAP and I was wondering how common this is. I have had several dreams with my xMM in it......and this has never happened prior to DDay. In my dreams, xMM is with me, but something else has inevitably been stolen.....for example, my car, or my purse. I had one dream many years ago before xMM and I began the A and were still just friends. He had been stabbed, and I was the only one he wanted to see as he lay there dying. Dreams are so strange. Anyone put any credence to dreams? Link to post Share on other sites
ViresSanctity Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 I put it to subconscious and desires; what we suspect and possibly think we know; What our fears and paranoia are that might not necessarily be true; and a reflection of who we are - everyone and thing we see in the dream is a reflection on our perspective. I've had many dreams since the day I've met my AP to this day (6 months). She is always on my mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bellasue Posted May 1, 2013 Author Share Posted May 1, 2013 It was one of your threads that made me think of this ViresSanctity. I attribute my current dreams to the sudden disappearance of my xMM. Something I consider valuable to my well being is taken unexpectedly. And for the most part, in my dreams he doesn't really care that much. Interesting how the subconscious works sometimes. Good luck to you on your continuing path. I feel the same way. Missing xMM like crazy! Link to post Share on other sites
ViresSanctity Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 It was one of your threads that made me think of this ViresSanctity. I attribute my current dreams to the sudden disappearance of my xMM. Something I consider valuable to my well being is taken unexpectedly. And for the most part, in my dreams he doesn't really care that much. Interesting how the subconscious works sometimes. Good luck to you on your continuing path. I feel the same way. Missing xMM like crazy! Well like you said, you saw something of value being taken away but your xMM is still there. A piece to your puzzle. Most of the time we know what our dreams are telling us. We may want to discuss it to clarify some details but the meaning the images and sounds are very familiar to us. We know why we see this and hear that. Hope you find your answers. Link to post Share on other sites
GreySkyMorning Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 Yes, I've been dreaming about him, really heartbreaking dreams in the last week or so. Dreams of him telling me that he never loved me, laughing at me, turning his back on me, over and over. His wife is even in my dreams and I've only seen a couple of pics of her. I don't know how much meaning I actually attribute to them. I think its just my mind playing with the demons sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
Silly_Girl Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 I had dreams prior to him separating from his wife. They were so patently obvious it's untrue. One regular one: We'd be due to meet in London, it wasn't London as I know it but a sort of murky Dickensian London. He doesn't make the meet point on time. I think I see him in the throngs of people moving this way and that. I call (who I think is) him. I dart after him. This chase continues. I am possibly chased myself, or threatened, having to avoid a mugging or similar. This goes on (and on and on). It's panicky, lonely and upsetting. I'm trying so hard to find him. It gets late, I'm alone and the streets are dark and dangerous. I'm so worried about what might have happened to him. I'm exhausted and crying, pounding the streets peering in to windows and doorways. Eventually I see him in a lit window. He's eating dinner in a restaurant. With his wife. The End. Link to post Share on other sites
Goodbye Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 I was reading another thread about someone who was having dreams about their xAP and I was wondering how common this is. I have had several dreams with my xMM in it......and this has never happened prior to DDay. In my dreams, xMM is with me, but something else has inevitably been stolen.....for example, my car, or my purse. I had one dream many years ago before xMM and I began the A and were still just friends. He had been stabbed, and I was the only one he wanted to see as he lay there dying. Dreams are so strange. Anyone put any credence to dreams? Dreams are just our mind's way off processing all of our emotions. I had a dream last night about my exMM. We were in the first round of our relationship...20 some odd years ago (we were a couple for years before we both married others). He kept trying to send me a gift, but the delivery service would come at times when I wasn't home and I was getting very frustrated. Later I had a dream that my parents painted his name on their boat and I was upset that I'd have to see his name while grieving. Link to post Share on other sites
Esoteric Elf Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 No. The girl I have liked for over two and a half years has had everything from cameos, to fiancé status to other guys, to liking me in my dreams (the latest of which was just last night:love:). And if real life is any indication for me, the lattermost will render any credence impossible. Link to post Share on other sites
FallenPrincess Posted May 2, 2013 Share Posted May 2, 2013 I've had a few dreams of the man I've been sleeping with. I never know what to make of it. He is one of those guys that can only lease a car and never buy one. I'm not sure why I even continue on this dark, long road. Link to post Share on other sites
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