sabrina Posted December 8, 2000 Share Posted December 8, 2000 For the last 8 months my serious boyfriend of 2 yrs has been fickle in his decisions with me. We are both 20. We have broken up and gotten back together like 3 times in the 8 month period. each time has not lasted more than a month or so.What started it was him moving away for college thinking everyone was right about not having a serious grlfrnd in college. They all told him things. he moved and he listened to them but was not happy because he really needed me in his life. Why it took him that long to realize I dont know. But he is moved back to my town again. And is trying his damdest to get me back. He wants me for good and says he learned his lesson . I believe he always loved me ,, but he didnt realize how much untill he lost me for good. I was so in love with him then. But now I am afraid to take him back. I know he is serious , but I just feel wierd about it. what should I do. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 8, 2000 Share Posted December 8, 2000 He's still very young and right now probably does love you and also wants you back for convenience. Your relationship as you described has not been a good one. This guy is not likely to be changed on a permanent basis. My best feeling is he is wanting you back to use you for the time being. He can do this and still have feelings for you as well. I may be wrong but I really don't think this guy is ready to make you happy over the long haul. Give it a try and see if you want. But remember the saying, "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me." This guy has fooled you quite a few times. Now, if you like relationships with a lot of drama and chaos, I think you have found your man!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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