Deepwounds Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 In Nov 2012 I started dating my girlfriend that I met online in a gaming community. "She's 21 Im 25" We kinda just hit it off like no other relationship I have ever been in. We are about 8 hours apart and we both visited each other multiple times. We spend most of are free time in Skype and playing Video games [ we both are in school ]. We have talked a lot about how we think we were Fated because of our personality and how we met. We have talked a lot about the future together and when finishing school moving in together. Everything seems fine till a couple days ago. A few days ago this guy who plays in this community started messaging her, and talking smack to me. At this time I didnt know who he was so I got on the defensive about it, and I told my girl about the stuff he says and how I feel unconformable when she talks to him. She said she likes how I am protective of her and how it lets her know I care about her. I then said that I am not going to dictate who she is friend with, but made it clear I dislike her talking to him. She then said she just wants more poeple to play games with. Which is understandable. I then proceeded to talk with the guy about the trash talk he was saying and he claims it ws just BS, and that he doesn't want anything like that with my girl . I also know for a fact hes dating another girl online too. Now we all kinda started playing games together. I still see her typing to him which I am bothered that mabe she is falling for this guy. Every time hes on she wants to play, but she always asks me if I want to join her. She even woke me up in the morning asking if I wanted to play with them. When asked what they talk about she claims just about games like "Bro talk" which I understand because she does have a lot of other guy friends she played with. Also she says if he does try to make some hints of flirting she just ignores it. I ask the forums for help because even after all this. We still talk about the future, Her attitude hasnt changed towards me. We still do all the same stuff before this guy came around, and she mentioned how shes not attracted to him what so ever and even threw out "He acts kinda gay" 'Sorry not trying to offend anyone.'. I dnt want to push her away with jealousy or Paranoia, and I do trust her, but I have has issues in the passed with other ex's. She also has mentioned in the passed and during the confrontation that she isnt that type of person to do that and if she doesn't want to date me she will just leave me. Im just looking for advice. If you have any other questions please feel free to ask. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Deepwounds Posted May 1, 2013 Author Share Posted May 1, 2013 Also she still planns on coming here for the summer time which we discussed prior to this issue. Link to post Share on other sites
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