lilablue Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 I met a guy at work and we dated for a while. However, we broke up because of communication problems. He left the area to go to grad school and I did a no contact with him for a month. I contacted him after the month by email. He responded casually. So, I sent another email and he really opened up to me and told me that he had thought of me and that I probably felt his vibe. I responded that I must have felt it because he had been on my mind. Now what should I do to get him back since I dumped him and now he is in another state going to grad school. Help?? I have not heard from since our email exchange last week. Should I wait for him to reach out??? Link to post Share on other sites
Sparky Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 Well, from the sounds of it, it won't be very hard to get him back in a relationship. No, don't wait. What if he's waiting for you? If you don't respond, then he might think that you're not interested. Trust me, THAT hurts! Yeah, long distance relationships can be aggravating, but hey, at least it's better than NO relationship, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lilablue Posted September 23, 2004 Author Share Posted September 23, 2004 Thanks for your comments. I will send him an e-card next week because our emails took place last week. I want him to think about me and then seize the moment. I know he wont be expecting to hear from after two weeks. I dont want to be pushy because I want to visit him one weekend before the year ends. I dont want to scare him. Do you really think if a man says he thought of you it means he really cares about you? I know I am anoying. Link to post Share on other sites
Sparky Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 Not always. It really depends on the person. Guys can think of a girl just because they want them, but not always because they care about them, but only themselves (sex, etc.). It sounds like this person is a caring person. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lilablue Posted September 23, 2004 Author Share Posted September 23, 2004 I hope so. He was kinda arrogant when he lived in my hometown. He told me that grad school has humbled him since he is now a full-time student. But, I think me breaking it off gave him time to appreciate me but I think his ego got in the way of contacting me since I cut him off. Now that he is away at school and has matured. I want him back. I am starting to see a caring and thoughtful side of him. He wrote in his email to me after I contacted him the following: God does answer prayers. AMEN! I thank and praise God often, but it's between us (God and I). Thanks for keeping me in your prayers. That's the most anyone could do for me. I'm not really stressed, just a bit humbled. It's not so comfortable living at home, being a full time student, being broke, not partying, and being celibate, but that's what I need to get motivated. I've been able to use your books. Thanks. I hope all is going well with you. I've thought about you. Maybe you felt my vibration Link to post Share on other sites
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