BlondeCupcake Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 I go to a small highschool and every morning I walk out of the house with a positive attitude but the people at my school always tend to ruin it. It seems like lots of people make fun of me all the time and I don't think it's just me. I've never been that pretty but I didn't think I looked that bad. I've always been really awkward and shy though, maybe that's it. I just want someone to honestly tell me if I'm ugly or not, just so I can no. And none of this "everyone is beautiful" stuff because our world doesn't really work that way... Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 I don't normally engage in the "rate me" stuff, but it's a slow day. I think you're fairly pretty. You have skin issues that are probably a hassle to deal with at your age, but you have a nice smile and beautiful eyes. High school can be a shop of horrors. It'll pass, but I'm sorry you have to deal with it in the meantime. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlondeCupcake Posted May 1, 2013 Author Share Posted May 1, 2013 I don't normally engage in the "rate me" stuff, but it's a slow day. I think you're fairly pretty. You have skin issues that are probably a hassle to deal with at your age, but you have a nice smile and beautiful eyes. High school can be a shop of horrors. It'll pass, but I'm sorry you have to deal with it in the meantime. Yeah, I don't mean to do things like this it just was getting to me. Thank you anyway though, thankfully highschool will be over soon. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 high school playground mentality ....suuuucks...smilin...i was a shy girl too......a loner.....how i look at it now is not being part of the pack ...made me go out and do amazing things on my own.......i joined a volunteer radio station, worked at a local tv station,i raised money for charity, entered writing competitions, joined the state emergency service, spent a lot of time with family, spent lunch time talking to inspiring teachers who appreciated my intellect, wrote to pen pals over seas,joined protest marches for nuclear disarmament, enjoyed the company of adults...and the older generation with awesome stories they shared fill my memories........which.....combat the horrible disgusting immaturity of bullies i have come across........ bad behavior has always pushed me in the other direction....... you are a gorgeous girl so young so pretty and you are blessed with a heart....the things you will do in your life,will be amazing...and wonderful...you will meet peopel who are unable to go where you go because they are close minded and narrow, th eones who dont liek it that youa re happy and you smile all the time.....but dont worry...you catch your ride, keep those baby blues smiling.....and i wish you nothing but the best..keep your heart open and your dreams with the stars above.............hugs....deb 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlondeCupcake Posted May 1, 2013 Author Share Posted May 1, 2013 high school playground mentality ....suuuucks...smilin...i was a shy girl too......a loner.....how i look at it now is not being part of the pack ...made me go out and do amazing things on my own.......i joined a volunteer radio station, worked at a local tv station,i raised money for charity, entered writing competitions, joined the state emergency service, spent a lot of time with family, spent lunch time talking to inspiring teachers who appreciated my intellect, wrote to pen pals over seas,joined protest marches for nuclear disarmament, enjoyed the company of adults...and the older generation with awesome stories they shared fill my memories........which.....combat the horrible disgusting immaturity of bullies i have come across........ bad behavior has always pushed me in the other direction....... you are a gorgeous girl so young so pretty and you are blessed with a heart....the things you will do in your life,will be amazing...and wonderful...you will meet peopel who are unable to go where you go because they are close minded and narrow, th eones who dont liek it that youa re happy and you smile all the time.....but dont worry...you catch your ride, keep those baby blues smiling.....and i wish you nothing but the best..keep your heart open and your dreams with the stars above.............hugs....deb Thank you for your kind words I hope I can make my life worthwhile. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BoneyHadger Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 Believe it or not, you'll be laughing about it in a few years time. I had my share of being picked on in HS as well, doesn't matter now, well, it's been a while too. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 I promise you that things will get better. I felt the same way when I was in high school. Now I laugh about it, or I don't even remember the incidents. Also, you DO have beautiful eyes. Make sure to play them up if/when you wear makeup. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 Thank you for your kind words I hope I can make my life worthwhile. I think you'll be fine. Just try to leave the nonsense you're dealing with behind you once HS is over. There are too many people who dwell on the wrongs dealt to them by morons in school, even years after the events. This is a very general observation, but oftentimes while teens are very fragile, they also can be remarkably unempathetic. The same folks who are giving you a hard time now will be the ones who will want to be your friends ten years from now. Your best bet is to deal with the hurtfulness with as much grace and humor as you can muster. I promise you it will get better. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlondeCupcake Posted May 1, 2013 Author Share Posted May 1, 2013 Once again, thank you guys for your words of support. I just want to say I'm not seeking attention or anything like that, I just wanted to let it out. I can't wait until I'm out of school and never have to see any of those people again. People who make fun of others for no reason probably aren't going to do much of anything in life anyway. So hopefully once I'm in college making a name for myself, I can look back and laugh at all the people who said those things. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 What field of study are you interested in, once you get to college? Link to post Share on other sites
tman666 Posted May 1, 2013 Share Posted May 1, 2013 Not ugly at all! You will be amazed at how much people change after high school. You will see some of the "hot" people get ugly and let themselves go, "successful" people end up mired in mediocrity, "losers" end up owning thriving businesses, etc. It sounds cliche and boring, but it's true: focus on keeping your grades up and gaining quality experiences (sports, clubs, etc.). If you have good grades, you have options once you graduate. Don't buy into any misguided sentiment that "high school should be one of the best times of your life". Just get through it, enjoy the company of your true friends, do your best to ignore the *******s and bitches, and know that the best is yet to come. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlondeCupcake Posted May 1, 2013 Author Share Posted May 1, 2013 What field of study are you interested in, once you get to college? I plan on going into business/marketing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DannyMason Posted May 2, 2013 Share Posted May 2, 2013 You're cute. You have now been validated by the internet. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted May 2, 2013 Share Posted May 2, 2013 I read something in People magazine the other day, the issue with Gwyneth Paltrow on the cover. When asked by her daughter why people say mean things about her, she replied that those people are hurting and project their hurt onto others. Her 8-year old daughter understood. You are very attractive and I think other girls envy you and so try to knock you down a peg. Look at it from that perspective -- it's not about you, it's about them. Ignore, be polite and disengage. Link to post Share on other sites
Maleficent Posted May 2, 2013 Share Posted May 2, 2013 I go to a small highschool and every morning I walk out of the house with a positive attitude but the people at my school always tend to ruin it. It seems like lots of people make fun of me all the time and I don't think it's just me. I've never been that pretty but I didn't think I looked that bad. I've always been really awkward and shy though, maybe that's it. I just want someone to honestly tell me if I'm ugly or not, just so I can no. And none of this "everyone is beautiful" stuff because our world doesn't really work that way... Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting Honey you are gorgeous! The world doesn't end with Highschool. Once you graduate and move on to college things will change. Link to post Share on other sites
Almond_Joy Posted May 2, 2013 Share Posted May 2, 2013 I agree. Can't believe people make fun of you. You have really pretty eyes and a very nice smile. You look fine. I'm really shocked that people criticize your looks. Like.....is there a standard look where you live that you don't fit? I live in SoCal, beauty comes in so many different forms out here people wise and I've yet to see someone be called ugly unless they've got a deformity or disease or something. Baffling to me lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Eve Posted May 3, 2013 Share Posted May 3, 2013 (edited) You are a very pretty girl and will blossom further. Secondary School can be a nightmare. I had a hard time too but I actually did look terrrible, lol. My family were unable to care for me so I was moved around the care system a lot. Luckily I had continued with my talent in gymnastics and basically lived in the library at other times. In the end I realised that my life was actually perfectly fine and even if I looked like the people who made fun off me I would not want to spend time with them. They were fake, horrible people. I didn't see it coming but my blossoming came and I have pretty much stayed the same ever since. I cannot believe how haggard the people who made fun off me look now! I think ugliness comes out physically eventually. Seriously, be yourself and try and be graceful, like what Gorrillatheatre said. .. Nice to see such a lovely looking girl with good intentions for the future. Take care, Eve x Edited May 3, 2013 by Eve Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy fields Posted May 4, 2013 Share Posted May 4, 2013 You are pretty, intelligent, and will do well if you keep the perspective of high school being the suck in check. I turned into a hot commodity in college. I can assure you I was not one in high school. You will also connect with people with similar interests who will be more attractive to you, too. This too shall pass. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted May 4, 2013 Share Posted May 4, 2013 You are a very pretty girl OP, your eyes are beautiful and you are very lucky with your hair colour. As you mature, you will grow prettier still Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted May 4, 2013 Share Posted May 4, 2013 You look like the girl who plays Arya Stark in Game Of Thrones if she grew her hair out. Link to post Share on other sites
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