I really miss my ex girlfriend, but she has a boyfriend. What do I do??

[Alltheabove1212]

My ex got a boyfriend a month and a half after we broke up. We went no contact and are not "friends". We have mutual friends so she is always at the parties I am at. Last time I got mad, but didn't show it, because she was hanging out with that guy.

 

This weekend, her boyfriend would be giving me looks and when she saw me walk in she smiled and looked happy to see me. I kind of just gave a head nod, then walked by her and gave a "what's up". I know she had her eye on me at least twice that night.

 

She mentioned to her friend that I didn't even say hi to her.

 

But what does she expect? She has a boyfriend.

 

To be honest I still have some feelings, but I'm not gonna waste my time hurting myself with that.

 

Day before the party, she deleted me off twitter and snap chat after sending 3 straight pictures (she sent to everyone on her list anyway).

 

At the party she still tries to be friends with my friends.

 

Am I looking too much into this or is something up?

 

 

Btw our breakup wasn't that bad. We were just fighting a lot over an issue.

[will1988]

I would say move on, and ignore her. hook up with some strange at the party, and if you are feeling vindictive, flaunt it in her face.

[TheFriend]

You owe her nothing. Especially if she is there with a guy. What does she expect?lol"hey congrats on this new guy!hope he does what I did for you" eff that nonsense. Stay away from her the best you can and when you have to be make it your best effort to act like you don't care.

[Chi townD]

Not sure what you're asking for. You know what the deal is. She broke up with you or you with her. The point is, she's harboring some guilt. Maybe feels guilty that she has someone new and you don't. Maybe because she moved on so quicky that maybe she thinks that you're probably thinking that you really didn't mean anything to her. Whatever! Could be a dozen things on why she's harboring guilt.

 

She would love nothing better than to say to herself, " OH LOOK! We're not together anymore, but we're really good friends! I guess the break up was for the best afterall!" She would be able to ease her own guilt.

 

My advice is to not see her. Period. If you're supposed to go to a party and you know she's going to be there. Just...don't go. Do something else. Now, I know that you're going to tell me that you shouldn't have to stop seeing your friends because of her. blah....blah...

 

I'm just saying remove yourself from the situation until you're able to view your Ex with nothing but indifference. You need time to heal. Plus, you're giving her an Ego boost everytime that you see her. She gets her little Alltheabove fix, she gets to see you and how you're fairing but still goes home with the other dude. Let HER wonder what happened to you, let HER wonder why you aren't around. Let HER sit there and stew for a while.