crash&burn Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 Hello everyone, I wanted to check with everyone and ask if there are a lot of breakups around them, friends, family etc. This year has been a bad one for myself and a lot of my friends.. Is there something else out there causing this? Something no one can explain, who knows? Today I heard yet another one of my good friends have broken up, they were together 5 years, seemed very happy, I never thought they would be apart. I feel like crying for them. The world is a sad place at the moment. Anyone else experiencing this too? crash Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 Yup, a lot of it around myself too. One couple of five years, another one of 4, living together for 3, one divorce on a newly wedd couple, one ugly divorce after 25 years of marriage (for a younger woman)... Me out of a 4 and a half one... Weird year! Link to post Share on other sites
Lonestar Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 Hearts are broken every day. There's nothing strange about this year or time period. It's just hitting you close to home. Link to post Share on other sites
findinmyway Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 Man, I agree. I wish there was a goofy explanation like it's the suns position in Uranus that only happens once every 20 years. But, I hate to admit I agree with Lonestar. This world and the time we live in can be so sad when you think about things. However--I wonder if times were just as sad 50 yrs ago when people stayed together for the sake of just staying together? For families---prob just as sad for the parents cohabitating in misery, but better for the children ??? Link to post Share on other sites
lilablue Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Listen to my story and tell me what you think" I met a guy at work and we dated for a while. However, we broke up because of communication problems. He left the area to go to grad school and I did a no contact with him for a month. I contacted him after the month by email. He responded casually. So, I sent another email and he really opened up to me and told me that he had thought of me and that I probably felt his vibe. I responded that I must have felt it because he had been on my mind. I have not heard from since him our email exchange last week. So, I sent him an e-card stating the following: Hello! I hope my emails have put a smile on your face. I haven't stop smiling since I got your replies to my emails. I am deeply appreciative of you being so candid and open with me. I had prayed for a honest and new beginning. I am often reminded of you when I hear the music of Anthony Hamilton on the radio. Maybe, Earth, Wind, & Fire has the same effect on you. He replied: Thank you. Is that a way of saying you miss me? What Do you REally think?? Is he interested??? Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted September 25, 2004 Share Posted September 25, 2004 Could be, Lilablue, could be . As far as break ups are concerned: I now it is really stupid and ignorant to think this (probably even more stupid to say it out loud) but this year is different. There are a LOT of break ups. I mean,yeah, bad news travel fast... but still... it is chilly. Of course I wish I could find an explination, the truth is that there isn't any. You know, like anarchy being the supreme order. Just a damn cold and tough year. Hopefully a year of new beginnings too - also I heard of very little hook ups... Link to post Share on other sites
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