Hmmmmm, Strange Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 My ex broke up with me almost 4 months ago. I tried contacting her twice during the first month but never got any kind of response, so I quit trying. She didn't even send me any type of b-day wishes on my b-day 2 weeks ago. Now I catch her doing a drive by on my house 2 days ago. She knows no one in my neighborhood except me. So whats up with that. She has not contacted me in almost 4 months. If she's going to check out what's happening at my house, why not just call or stop by. I don't think I will ever understand. I would love to talk to her or see her. Opinions? Link to post Share on other sites
Hmmmmm, Strange Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Doesn't someone have an opinion on this? Link to post Share on other sites
mighty bop Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Haha that's funny. She is stalking you. She wants to see if you have another girl over there. She probably regrets the breakup, but doesn't want to admit it. Stay away from her, it could get ugly. Chris Link to post Share on other sites
backspn Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 She is probably scared to contact you first cause she broke up with you. Women are like this....she has pride and she wont call you but she'll drive by your house. Do you AIM? Does she? If she does its a great way to bait her to call you. Leave an away message that only she will know about and she will call you. Say something that isnt too personal but only she would know. Say something like "Going to sleep....leave a message...and goodnight (insert name)." Link to post Share on other sites
mighty bop Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Nah man you shouldn't have to do silly things like that. If anything, call her up and tell her you saw her driving by your house and what is she doing? Chris Link to post Share on other sites
backspn Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Games women play arent logical. Silly is irrelevant. Does he want her back or not? If so...play the games. If not call her up and ask her wtf she was doing out there. Link to post Share on other sites
WantanS4 Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Nah dude... don't do anything... let her sit in her own puddle of 'the unknown'......... if she REALLY REALLY REALLY loves you... she'll give in to herself. But if you want her back... don't get caught with another girl...... make it a dignity/self-respect/pride deal on yourside. You can't go wrong and in the end you won't get a single finger pointed at you Link to post Share on other sites
mighty bop Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Well said. Chris Link to post Share on other sites
backspn Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 So he cant see another woman cause is ex wont get the nerve to talk to him?.... Link to post Share on other sites
alicia24 Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 I dont think she should have sent you card. it would have made things more confusing./ as fot the drive by, she wants to see if there are any girls at oyur house Link to post Share on other sites
Hmmmmm, Strange Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 No, I will not call her. I feel it is up too her being that she broke up with me and the fact that I tried to contact her twice 3 months ago. She never responded so it is up to her. In the mean time, my life goes on and I am dating other women. She knows I saw her drive by because I was in my garage and she looked right at me. She is probably too embarrassed now and too much pride for her to swallow. Link to post Share on other sites
Hmmmmm, Strange Posted September 26, 2004 Share Posted September 26, 2004 Has anyone else had this type of experience? Link to post Share on other sites
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