EX inivites me to her party and tells me other things....advice please

[AsGoodAsItGets01]

Me and my ex were together 3 and half years...we took a break and now she has been seeing someone else for about a month...they go to the same college she stays over there at night sometimes and they hang out a lot.

 

Anyways, I did no contact for 2 weeks just to help me cope and all that...and I got back on instant messenger and she messaged me as soon as I got on. She invited me and my friends to a big party at her and her roomies apartment the party for their friends birthday Saturday. Me and my friends are friends with her friends as well. However, she has said she needs her time to figure out things on her own and plus shes dating someone else and this Saturday is my birthday too!

I told her we might come and she said...well u should, and said her b/f won't be there in case of was afraid of some tension. I told her I didn't know if it was a good idea and stuff and she said that she wanted to invite me as a friend.

 

Then we had a lil nice talk and she told me this: If though I really like this guy I don't feel like I can get too close to him because of you (which is me) and because this guy is Jewish. She said that she doesnt know if shes wasting time seeing him if in the future it works out and she happens to be faced with the interfaith thing.

 

 

SO I WANT TO KNOW WHAT ALL YOU THINK!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!

[Merin]

Honestly.... I think your Ex~Girlfriend needs to get a different "Relationship Therapist" that isn't YOU.

 

Sorry, but for real... why in the hell does she think you want to hear about her new boyfriend in this capacity? I mean yeah IF she wanted to tell you what a dirtbag, jackass he is and she knows she doesn't want to be with him because she misses YOU so darn much and wants another chance.... then yeah let her bring that on!

 

Personally...... I think IF getting back together with you was on her mind she wouldn't be telling you that she is even looking at this other guy as a "potential" guy that could be the one.... or having concerns and letting you know what they are about the interfaith deal.... jeez she has been with this guy a month and she is stressing over "What if?"

 

Just me.... but I wouldn't subject myself into going to the party... UNLESS I had a hot date that wanted to come with me:lmao:

[Notorious]

She's stringing you along, trying to make you chase after her for an ego-boost or whatever.

 

Don't fall for it. Resume no contact.