Mjfru Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Ok so there's this girl that I have the biggest crush in the world on. I've had a crush on her for almost a year now, and back when I was with me ex-girlfriend I used to dream about being with her and everything! I'm so obsessed over her! The reason I'm so obsessed is because we are also practically best friends as well, so everyone says that we'd be perfect together! That thought alone makes me so happy! Well here's the downside. She just broke up with her bf not too long ago, well actually a while ago but they've been "messing around" lately, so really I'd say that they have only been broken up for a few weeks (cause that's when they last "messed around"). Well now here's the part where I ask people for help on the situation. Many tell me to just go right for her, that we are the perfect match, because we are such close friends already and we'd be so great for each other, than others tell me to wait until she's really over Shane. So I don't really know what to do . . . . . I mean one side of me wants to get her as soon as possible, but the other side KNOWS that this girl is HUGE. I've never felt this way about anyone . . . . it seems so perfect . . . . we have so much fun together we seem like we could be the perfect match . . . . all the problems that her ex gave her I know of and can fix all of them . . . and I know all about her and everything, it's like unbearable to type this down and know how perfect we are, but still have to worry about her rejecting me . . . Well please can some people tell me if I should wait longer for her to "really" get over her ex, or just do it and tell her, my best friend, how I've felt about her the last year . . . . and hope for the best Link to post Share on other sites
mighty bop Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 She is still messing around with her ex? That's not good. Tell her how you feel and that's it. It will be up to her then. Don't come on too strong though. Plus don't think she is THE ONE for you. There are millions more that are THE ONE for you. But like I said, you really like her so tell her how you feel. Then see what happens. Chris Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mjfru Posted September 24, 2004 Author Share Posted September 24, 2004 Your comment makes sense, and a lot of people think that I should just go and tell her too. I don't mean that she is THE ONE for me, but we'd be a great couple, so I think that her and I should seriously get together. Well I guess I'll just have to wait and see . . . . any other comments are surely appreciated . . . Link to post Share on other sites
SavesTheDay Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Just tell her. You can't hold it forever. Do it before she gets back with her ex. Link to post Share on other sites
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