MEN: How do I get the EX I DUMPED BACK??? UPDATE

[lilablue]

For all who know my story. I contacted him again by sending him an e-card. He

wrote back is this your way of saying you miss me.

 

What should I say?????

[Luv addict]

Why did you break up with him?

Was it hateful or agreed upon?

Sounds like he missing you, too, to me.

[lilablue]

I met a guy at work and we dated for a while. However, we broke up because of communication problems.

He left the area to go to grad school and I did a no contact with him for a month. I contacted him after the month

by email. He responded casually. So, I sent another email and he really opened up to me and told me that

he had thought of me and that I probably felt his vibe. I responded that I must have felt it because he had been on my mind.

 

I have not heard from since him our email exchange last week. So, I sent him an e-card stating the following:

 

Hello!

 

I hope my emails have put a smile on your face. I haven't stop smiling since I got your replies to my emails. I am deeply appreciative of you being so candid and open with me. I had prayed for a honest and new beginning.

 

I am often reminded of you when I hear the music of Anthony Hamilton on the radio. Maybe, Earth, Wind, & Fire has the same effect on you.

 

He replied: Thank you. Is that a way of saying you miss me?

 

What Do you REally think?? Is he interested???

[bikerider]

I'll tell you what it means. He is probably still a little angry and hurt that you dumped him. He is also wondering if you were in a relationship that just wasn't working and now you are lonely for him. I'll bet he thinks that if he were to take you back you would dump him again. I was dumped 2 months ago and if she were to start some sort of "lets try and work this out" I would know it's only because her new guy dumped her. You ex is also getting pleasure out of the fact that he knew you would miss a good thing and feels like saying "I told you so"

[lilablue]

I am sorry to hear about your break up. Only God knows what is in his heart.

I only pray that he is reallly cares for me. Maybe I should let him come

to me now. I had to hint to him that I missed him since I initated the break up.

[Luv addict]

As the saying goes..... if you want it, set it free. If its yours, it will come back, if it doesn't, it never was. Good luck to you. I have a strange feeling, this will all work out fine. As TLC says, trust the rivers you know, not the waterfalls. Peace!

[lilablue]

He just sent me the following email. I had wrote that I would like to see him in Florida but it would be his choice to make and not mine. He wrote the following:

 

 

"Yeah, we're kinda getting used to all these storms and hurricanes. That's nature. You may be able to see me. Who knows what may happen. Maybe you'd like me to be your daddy and give you a big, hard, juicy Christmas gift. We'll see if you've been naughty or nice. You might deserve a spanking."

 

Do you REALLY thinks he wants me back or just looking for a GOOD time????????????

[Luv addict]

You want him back and you broke up with him. Be true to yourself and him and evaluate the relationship to make sure its healthy for you both and be your sweet self. It will all work out.

Good luck!

[mudobber]

Just walk up to him and give him a quick little French kiss. My bet is he will melt in your mouth, then in your bed. Tell him that you are sorry while you are making love with him. Emphasis on that you know that he is hurt and that you will make it up to him.

 

Then the next day have a heart to heart talk with him, ask him to please forgive you, and that you would like to leave all the bad feelings behind so that you can both begin a future of contentment. Look him strait in the eye and let him know that he won’t regret it, but there has to be true forgiveness. Then take him shopping for gold rings.

 

Then hold out on him until he commits. Don’t play games with this guy, pin him down and make him beg you to marry him.