My ex is mad at me even though she broke up with me?

[maturityassets]

Thank you all and I'm glad to join the community:

Ok basically, My ex dumped me a month and a half ago (we were in each other lives for over a year). She wanted to be single and didn't feel the need to be in the relationship. I understood, said I can't convince you to say in something you don't want. About a week and a half ago I picked up the last of my things but in that time she tried to make me jealous, she mentioned this hook up she had with this guy from her past ( a guy who I never felt comfortable about and when she asked if she could ever hang out with him during our relationship I told her that is er choice but it does make me feel uncomfortable, and so after that she took it upon herself not to text him again; he also treated her pretty bad as well). The rest of the night I played it cool and wasn't phased by it until a couple of days later that i realized she was trying to ask me to wait for her and kept giving me compliments. I eventually texted her that i didn't want any thing to do with her. I eventually messaged her a few days later that I apologize for lashing out but I think its best that we don't talk for a while. She agreed. Then a few days ago she sends me this whole message how she is so sorry and that she shouldn't have done what she did and she felt terrible even mentioning it and said i don't have to respond. I did respond merely to show I'm not bitter but I didn't exactly accept her apology so I said "ok, well I still think we need our space." Now she is mad at me, posting stuff about me like "you think you know someone" and trying to justify she didn't do anything wrong. It bothers me because I didn't do anything besides ask for space. I need that space to move on and eventually will forgive her and accept her apology. I'm moving on slowly, taking it slow with a new girl I met, slowly being ok with the break up, working on myself to make sure I have none of the flaws that maybe added to our break up. But its just so immature of her to treat me this way. I was someone who motivated her to go back to college when she thought was content with not going back. She had a lot of skeletons in her closet and as painful as they were to listen to, I embraced everything she needed to say and acted as both; a lover and a understanding friend. Why the anger? Is she not over it? Did she hope I would linger around? Does it bother her that I'm serious about moving on?

Edited May 6, 2013 by maturityassets
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[will1988]

for some odd reason some people just do not like to see their exes happy, and moving on in life with out them. she expects you to be like putty in her hands and to be her little lap dog, begging for attention. However, you've shown her that you are trying to move on and that you do not want her in your life. This is making her jelous and making her feel not good enough. So she is lashing out. Crazy is like a cancer, it needs to be cut out and eradicated before it grows in to a bigger problem... you need to cut your crazy ex out of your life, completely! block her phone number, email, facebook etc... and move on.

 

good luck!

[coltsfan1]

for some odd reason some people just do not like to see their exes happy, and moving on in life with out them. she expects you to be like putty in her hands and to be her little lap dog, begging for attention. However, you've shown her that you are trying to move on and that you do not want her in your life. This is making her jelous and making her feel not good enough. So she is lashing out. Crazy is like a cancer, it needs to be cut out and eradicated before it grows in to a bigger problem... you need to cut your crazy ex out of your life, completely! block her phone number, email, facebook etc... and move on.

 

good luck!

 

I can tell you from experience that the above advice is 110% correct. Cut her out and never look back.