Author candie13 Posted May 7, 2013 Author Share Posted May 7, 2013 But with my current boyfriend that's exactly what happened. It was strange to occur whilst texting but that's exactly what happened. I was breathless. And my first thoughts coming out of my stupor were, "Fhuck. I love him." you thought "fhuck, I love him"? that's deep! My train of thinking usually goes this way: "f*ck, I'm screwed! I think I'm inluv with this guy!" 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author candie13 Posted May 7, 2013 Author Share Posted May 7, 2013 According to a study men fall in love sooner than women. An Error Occurred Setting Your User Cookie my bf is so silly, he's using sex talk to give me hints about his feelings... like all of a sudden, I got called "mi amor" on his texts - I usually call him "baby". I ain't falling for that sh*t, if it's sex talk, it stays in the bedroom, it doesn't mean anything ! smooth guy, I'm seeing, isn't it? Link to post Share on other sites
sweetkiwi Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 Been there, no spoken word. I was too scared at the time to do anything about it. It's not something that you can explain. Yeah both of us were too shy to do anything about it for 4 years. We saw eachother a lot since he was/is my older cousin's best friend. We had never seen eachother till that day. I remember every detail of that moment too. Even his facial expression. Until you experience you can't comprehend how it'd be possible. Link to post Share on other sites
Divasu Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 It's more of a vibration thing. I can find women attractive but that doesn't mean I would ever fall in love. Maybe once I got to know the person. I wouldn't be single if it was based on more of a sexual level. I was in love with a woman that I didn't feel sexual or physical attraction at all. Okay. Well on that note, maybe you're right. Don't listen to me. :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Author candie13 Posted May 7, 2013 Author Share Posted May 7, 2013 No worries it's rare for me to listen to a woman. it usually is... for all of you... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Divasu Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 No worries it's rare for me to listen to a woman. You just were, haha. Link to post Share on other sites
Divasu Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 Not really since I don't listen in the first place. Btw I said it was rare. hahaha TOuche. Honey, did you hear me? Why men don?t listen - Relationships - TODAY.com Link to post Share on other sites
Author candie13 Posted May 7, 2013 Author Share Posted May 7, 2013 Actually the women like to talk it out without solving the problem while men like to solve problems. So we can get into not really listening mode because we feed the need to solve the problem. Like the article states women are emotional when communicating men usually aren't. Also women like to give hints or talk in some secret code expecting men to figure it out. Men will get confused or tired of it and just stop listening. This is another topic in itself. I agree with all your points! Sometimes I am amazed at how men&women stick together in the first place... also, in all fairness, most of them don't... Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 How about you, are you inlove? How did you know you were inlove? is it a happy love story or a sad love story? are you hopeful or ... not really? Yes, I'm in love! Head over heels, very happy, very hopeful and can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him! How do I know? If this isn't love I don't know what else you'd call it. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Divasu Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 Actually the women like to talk it out without solving the problem while men like to solve problems. So we can get into not really listening mode because we feed the need to solve the problem. Like the article states women are emotional when communicating men usually aren't. Also women like to give hints or talk in some secret code expecting men to figure it out. Men will get confused or tired of it and just stop listening. This is another topic in itself. Yes, that is sometimes true. I think more so if she's complaining about something: Her: I feel fat Him: Go join a gym Her: #@^&^#@damn it, why can't you be just supportive! Him: Huh? She's just venting and it does not require a solution on the man's part. How could it? Not his problem. More serious matters, I do believe she is looking for a solution, at which point he will opt to help fix it or he will ignore it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
tbf Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 Madly and totally in love. This is my song for him, even though I'm not normally a beyoncé fan. No halo though, since he's sometimes a bad, bad boy which is so good! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 Madly and totally in love. This is my song for him, even though I'm not normally a beyoncé fan. No halo though, since he's sometimes a bad, bad boy which is so good! I'm sorry but that is a horrible horrible song... There are love songs that are a billion times better. Just throwing it out there Link to post Share on other sites
Divasu Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 I'm sorry but that is a horrible horrible song... There are love songs that are a billion times better. Just throwing it out there Would you prefer something along the lines, of this: Link to post Share on other sites
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 Would you prefer something along the lines, of this: Never heard that Link to post Share on other sites
Divasu Posted May 7, 2013 Share Posted May 7, 2013 Never heard that Oops. A bit before your time then. PS. Damn, I am old! Link to post Share on other sites
tbf Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 I'm sorry but that is a horrible horrible song... There are love songs that are a billion times better. Just throwing it out thereUntil you've lived my life, you will never understand it. The words are perfect! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
tbf Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 Would you prefer something along the lines, of this: Guessing this is more her style. Country, competition and inanity. Taylor Swift-You Belong With Me - YouTube Link to post Share on other sites
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 Guessing this is more her style. Country, competition and inanity. Taylor Swift-You Belong With Me - YouTube Perfect I will say that my ex and I liked Luke Bryan Drunk on You and Some Hearts by Carrie Underwood. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 Yes. Oh, yes. When I was younger, I didn't believe that it was possible to stay in love with someone for this long (and I do mean the euphoric feeling). Don't have a song for it though. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Divasu Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 Guessing this is more her style. Country, competition and inanity. Taylor Swift-You Belong With Me - YouTube Aha! So she's a Swiftie!! If I tune into one more channel on the radio and here TS I may just rip the skin off my face. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 Aha! So she's a Swiftie!! If I tune into one more channel on the radio and here TS I may just rip the skin off my face. TS made the soundtrack of my life. Link to post Share on other sites
Jedi Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 I'm in love, but she is my tutor & is married..... She helped me through my first time through college as I'm shy, and is really beautiful inside & out. I'm 18 in a few months, and she's in her early 20s I think. My college course ends in a few months and I'll most likely never see her again, as she stays with the first course, as I move onto the next one. She most likely sees me as just a kid, but as soon as I turned 18, I could of told her my feelings for her, if she wasn't married... *Sigh* I like being with her, but it pains me more & more knowing I can never have her. Once the course ends, I'll 9/10 never see her, and that will hurt me too... Why did the FIRST girl I ever truly had feelings for have to be married? Link to post Share on other sites
miss_jaclynrae Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 I have never felt like this about anyone. We are absolutely crazy about one another and the love... it is amazing. :love: For the first time in my life I have found someone who I honestly am 100% myself. All my flaws are out there on the table and he still wants to see my mug every morning. Going on 7 months now, have lived together pretty much the whole time, and everything has been amazing. We spend almost all our time together and it never gets old. He is my best friend, and I cherish having him in my life. It has been a life changing sort of love story for us. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author candie13 Posted May 9, 2013 Author Share Posted May 9, 2013 Oops. A bit before your time then. PS. Damn, I am old! no, you're not! You're experienced, please, huge difference, there!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author candie13 Posted May 9, 2013 Author Share Posted May 9, 2013 Yes. Oh, yes. When I was younger, I didn't believe that it was possible to stay in love with someone for this long (and I do mean the euphoric feeling). Don't have a song for it though. I have experienced love in a 7 years relationship... amazing how it lasts and grows, isn't it? Too bad love alone is not enough... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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