whichwayisup Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 Tell her she's put you in a really awkward position and it's not comfortable. Let her know that you love her and are her friend, will be there for her when the shi.t hits the fan but you cannot deal with her affair, the drama and all the betrayal. Suggest she go talk to a marriage counselor and figure things out and in a non judgemental way let her know that you can't support her decision by cheating on her husband. That if she is unhappy, she should divorce and not make things worse by cheating on him. If is truly is in love with someone else then she has to end her marriage asap.. You don't have to get involved or sucked into her betrayal and lies. Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 By telling you her secret she made you her accomplice, you didn't have a choice when hearing about her infidelity. You now know that she is putting her husband at risk by having unprotected sex with another man, you now know that her word means ****, is this really a friend? You now have a choice, what if he finds out you knew about her affair but didn't disclose it to him, is he a friend you want to keep, will he still be your friend when the truth comes out? No matter how you handle this, you will lose something. What kind of person are you, what does your heart tell you to do? People without boundaries that don't honor their word have no place in my life. By doing nothing you are in fact approving her cheating on her husband. Do not let her drag you down to her level, run, run, run . Would you introduce your S.O. to this person and let them become friends? Would you trust your S.O. to go out on a girls night with her? Do not be in her life if she is cheating, tell her you will not lie for her, should her husband ever ask you for the truth you will give it to him. You deserve honest friends in your life. Link to post Share on other sites
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