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I am a physique and underwear model. But I can't get girls...

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Emilia

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Thing is I don't need to do more stuff with my current friends. I want to meet more girls.

 

There have never been any societies that interest me. My main interest is working out and Mixed Martial Arts. The uni has kickboxing but that is a joke compared to my MMA training I do.

Ok, so you are not interested in widening your social circle in order to meet new people in order to meet girls. You are not interested in widening your range of interests in order to meet new people in order to meet girls.

 

you are indeed doomed. Good luck.

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cozmo

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It is true, I have no motivation. It actually makes me miserable but I don't make an attempt to change it.

 

On the flip side this year I managed to save up 7k for a new motorbike. My current motorbike does not make me miserable, but I had more motivation to save money for the new bike than I did to try and find a girl...

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Maybe you're gay? I mean when you do your MMA stuff do you ever find yourself staring at other guys a bit too long? Just sayin.

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No, I'm not. The male form does not turn me on.

 

Too bad I'm sure you'd make some dude very happy lol.

 

Not sure what else to tell you, really it sounds like you just need to grow a bit, make new friends outside of what/where you go right now but if you aren't willing to then you are kinda screwed.

 

What about artfag stuff? Like sketching, drawing, whatever? Or music? Are there no music clubs, live band shows in town, etc? I'm sure there are and tons of girls go to those places as well.

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I can't draw more than a stick man. Was never any good at music. and I have never been to any live stuff, although I am going to one in October.

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That's the first thing you need to work on.

 

No matter how hot you are, girls aren't going to knock on your door asking you to date them.

 

You need to go to a location where there are a lot of girls.

 

If you go to college, sign up for a dance class. Social dance, salsa, country line dancing, there are always tons of girls in those classes. If you aren't a college student then take a cardio class at a gym. Again there are bunches of girls there. Go the same time for a couple of weeks and you'll start to know some of the girls.

 

Meeting girls is the easy part. Once you are exposed to more girls your looks should do the rest for you.

 

 

That is so true... I did theater in college, and i sucked at acting and was so so at tech work, but i did it to meet girls... and i did meet a lot of them.

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This is the best advice in my opinion.

The best way to learn about what women need is watching and being around guys who do well with them on a regular basis.

 

The vague suggestions like 'Go out more', 'Confidence is key', etc don't help guys like the OP much.

 

Guys like him need to see specific things in action that are successful and I think by being around other guys who clean up a tonne of p*ssy every week is the best way to do it.

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The vague suggestions like 'Go out more'

How is 'go out more' vague?

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My best friend is a girl. My guy mates are either in relationships or just normal, I don't know any "players" or people who get laid regularly (outside a relationship.

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My best friend is a girl. My guy mates are either in relationships or just normal, I don't know any "players" or people who get laid regularly (outside a relationship.

 

And she doesn't have girl friends that she goes out with regularly? I have a hard time buying that in a college town there aren't bars or live music places where something happens at least once a month. Bicycling club? Do you have a motorcycle or something like that? There are clubs for everything under the Sun, yeah some of them might suck but you never know til you try. Taking an ArtFag class even though you can't draw to save your life might be a way to meet girls, on and on...

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cozmo

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nah, she is in final year of primary education and is on full time placement.

 

Yes I have a motorbike, The societies or clubs here are not very well publicized or anything.

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My son is way beyond handsome and has a body like your avatar, he is super shy, but he is hit by women all the time. So maybe you are not that "attractive"

 

Personality is 80% of the game..trust me...LOL

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I don't enjoy the club scene anymore. Because I dislike getting drunk and there are no trendy bar's near me. only the uni one and you can't sociallise out side your friends there because everyone else is already with their friends.

 

Do dislike being single more than going to the club?

 

Look, if you want success, you'll have to make some compromises and step out of your comfort zone. People in this thread have given you good suggestions but you've just been making excuses as to why you can't do the things they suggest. Your problem is that you want to meet women solely on your terms. It hasn't been working out for you so far, yet you're resistant to changing your attitude. If you're waiting for someone to tell you how to get what you want without you having to be uncomfortable or inconvenienced at all, don't hold your breath.

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Well I have only this year got my life the way I kinda want it to be (minus girls). I have only been in the army reserves for a year and don't want to pack that in so soon. I have also only this year really got committed to the MMA, before I was just kinda dabbling and not training enough.

 

I that is 4 of my 5 evenings a week taken up. So unless these clubs run during work hours I doubt I will have time.

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Well I have only this year got my life the way I kinda want it to be (minus girls). I have only been in the army reserves for a year and don't want to pack that in so soon. I have also only this year really got committed to the MMA, before I was just kinda dabbling and not training enough.

 

I that is 4 of my 5 evenings a week taken up. So unless these clubs run during work hours I doubt I will have time.

 

So you want everything. It appears you can't have it all. If you want stick with the army reserves and MMA, that's great if you enjoy them. Obviously they've been a hindrance to your dating life but you're unwilling to give them up. I don't know what else you expect people to tell you. You can continue on the path you're on now with little success with women or you can make some sacrifices and put some effort into meeting some. It sounds like you don't have time for both. You need to pick some things over other things or stop complaining about it.

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Well I have only this year got my life the way I kinda want it to be (minus girls). I have only been in the army reserves for a year and don't want to pack that in so soon. I have also only this year really got committed to the MMA, before I was just kinda dabbling and not training enough.

 

I that is 4 of my 5 evenings a week taken up. So unless these clubs run during work hours I doubt I will have time.

 

Excuses excuses excuses. Glad everyone wasted 5 pages of advice on your muscled ass.

 

This is why I stay out of the dating forum. Bleh.

 

OH WAIT. This is the self improvement forum. Bitching and whining doesn't belong here. Serious threads only.

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What do your girl friends say? Have you talked to any of them and asked for advice on dating? That's where I'd start because they know you and know how you come off.

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This thread is so funny.

 

If I looked half as good as this guy claims to be, I'd be getting laid 8 days a week.

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and that makes me feel worse.

And you haven't even seen what I look like!

 

Wait, that didn't come out right...

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Dude, from what I've been seeing in this thread, you aren't even trying. And you don't want to try.

 

Would you expect to win a MMA match if you didn't bother to train and practice? Do you think that just by showing up they should award you the W?

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lino

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How is 'go out more' vague?

 

Go out where? Then do what when he's there?

 

Like I said earlier, guys like OP need very specific advice detailing exactly what they need to do as they're generally really clueless about this stuff.

 

I know guys like the OP and of course they know that being stuck in the house won't present many opportunities to meet people.

 

He really needs to hang out on a regular basis with blokes who know what they're doing.

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