ziggue Posted September 25, 2004 Share Posted September 25, 2004 My Ex from 2 years ago rings me every now and then. It started a couple of months ago this year. Why do this after 2 years? Usually when I recognise the number I hang up immediately. What makes me think that I am gonna come running back to him. He Smokes Pot, Borrowed Money All The Time To Support That Habit (still owes me by the way), He's Emotionally Abusive, Got Anger Problems. Plus A Couple Of Personal Ones With A Lot Of Bagage, Messed Up In The Head, Comes From A Bad Family. I heard on the Grape Vine his father was physically abusive to him. His mother died when he was about six. Something to do with her brain. A clot. Not sure. I would have to be on drugged if I wanted to deal with all that again. I've got a boyfriend now who is nothing like that. Comes From A Good Family, Close To His Mum and Dad, Has Never Borrowed Money Or Touched Drugs, Has No Problems (Well No Other Then Normal) At All And No Bagage Or Attachments. Also No Anger Problems As Well. The total opposite infact. This relationship is like a breath of freash air. compared to that one. Should I mention that to him in messages? He already knows about that Ex. My Ex knows I've got a boyfriend too. Last night he rang me at around 3:00am. On my mobile first. Must have been in a very deep sleep. Didn't even check to see what number was on the phone and answered it. Didn't even recognise the voice at first. Lol. He went off at me because every time he tried to ring I would hang up on him. I was all mumbly, didn't talk much and just said going back to bed. Bye. Then hung up and turned off my phone. That's when he rang the house phone about 3 times. Dad wasn't happy about that. He hates the guy as much as I do. We both don't trust him at all. Kind of hoping he rings tonight so my current boyfriend answers the phone. Then hopefully he doesn't ring back again and gets that I am happily taken. I got two messages this morning. One was 'wish I could be with you. Hope he treats you better then I ever could' I thought. That's bull ****. Second one was about how he fantasises about me and that he wants to sleep with me again with no strings attached. I thought. This guy is playing games with me. . All I can do is ignore it and hope the problem goes away. Is there any other ideas to get this guy off my back? What about the messaging idea or the boyfriend answering the phone idea? Sorry if Post was a little bit long. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 25, 2004 Share Posted September 25, 2004 First, Why not just tell him you have zero interest in him and you don't want him to contact you again, EVER. If he doesn't get that, then change your number.... sometimes the phone company will do this (one time) at no charge to you if you let them know you're being harrased by someone. Bottomline, this guy can't play games with you, IF you don't let him. Link to post Share on other sites
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