RomanceLow Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 My ex and I have been over for 5 months now. I left him after he was sexting other people. We got together a couple of weeks ago and he said he wanted to change to potentially be with me. Ok I considered it. Lately, I find out he has been talking to one of my friends. She didn't know he was my ex bf and he doesn't know she's my friend. She sends me a pic of a guy she's talking to and it's my ex. I was surprised and i'm really upset the worst part is that he didn't even mention me... He said his last gf was in his hometown before he moved here. I'm really upset and this guy and I are "friends" he texts me every other week. What should i do? i feel like telling him off and then stop talking to him or is it more hurtful if i never text back? Thanks for the help, RomanceLow Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 You are just "friends", right? Well, who he dates shouldn't matter to you. If you're jealous then it's you that needs to probably distance yourself from him b/c it sounds like you still have feeling for him. Go NC. Why would you tell him off? He's not dating you, right? Just b/c he's dating your friend, it's really none of your business unless there is something about this guy that is dangerous and you feel that your gf needs to know about. Am I missing something here? Link to post Share on other sites
Infnitysign Posted May 8, 2013 Share Posted May 8, 2013 If I am right, you probably don't want to continue talking to him since you feel like he might use you as an option if him and his current text buddy don't work out. Telling him how you feel will probably just show that you are needy and insecure about him even though you guys aren't together anymore. Just go NC and don't worry about what he does with your girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
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