I dont know :-(

[Hoaks]

Hey guys,

 

Please help me, I think im going crazy. My older posts go through what me and my girlfriend went through. Break up and getting back together.

 

Im just not sure if im in the wrong here or im being to needy/insecure. For the last 2 to 3 weeks, my gf goes to see her friends most nights whenever shes not with me. She ends up having a drink there and stays the night.

Now she leaves her phone at home when shes out. Usualy around 6pm she goes out. Her reasoning is she just wants time with her friends and to not be worried about calling or texting me.

This hurts me so much, she never tells me when shes going either because we had a huge fight over it and she said well I wont tell you anything then.

I am 99 % sure there is no other guys involved. She is completely in love with me and when we are together I can just tell.

I have never met her friends because they are alot younger than me, its like a different life for her. Every morning she will text me goodmorning or call. She knows I have anxiety and worry way too much thats why she doesnt call to say shes going out. she thinks I make her feel like crap for it, she can hear the disapointment in my voice :-(.

Here is the kicker though, she tells me she sleeps at home some of these nights, but I have seen her car not there early in the mornings. I dont know how to confront her properly about this, if she knew I was driving past her place, she would end it.

I am madly in love with her and cant tell if im smothering and not giving her space, or if she is in the wrong and should have her phone if I want to call her?

Please let me know what I should do, I want us to work so bad :-(.

[road]

This is why starting new threads is pointless. Remember your story. There are more important things that I can not remember.

 

Have the mods link this to your old thread.

 

Without seeing into the past writtings I would say your GF is cheating.