Shaun-Dro Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I'm really beside myself with this. Here I am in the busiest city in the world, with tons of young women showing off their assets and walking the streets all slowly, so to me, that's a cue to make a move so I do. But 9 out of 10 times these dames have no personality whatsoever. I'm the one who has to cut the conversation short. At least I'm hitting them up where most guys just stand there and look or pretend like they don't even see them. Maybe they already know? 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 No. Those guys are just to chicken to talk to girls. And, it sounds like a wonderful problem to have. Too many good looking women... 1
NYC-BigKat Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I'm really beside myself with this. Here I am in the busiest city in the world, with tons of young women showing off their assets and walking the streets all slowly, so to me, that's a cue to make a move so I do. But 9 out of 10 times these dames have no personality whatsoever. I'm the one who has to cut the conversation short. At least I'm hitting them up where most guys just stand there and look or pretend like they don't even see them. Maybe they already know? Not me! I always try to say hi & start a little convo u know but then they run away or something so it never works out for me . I dont mind girls with no personality as long as she looks nice & acts right. 1
charlietheginger Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I think alot of pretty women just think " here i am im pretty look me over and buy me stuff" Im a princess When in reality that may work in ur 20s but its the Average chicks that have bomb personalities that Get the men... Why becuase they know how to not Be a princess but see be eye to eye on a mans level Means they know how to hang with his guy friends Dress down in jeans and a shirt and now how to Dress to impress when the time is right 3
hppr Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Maybe they already know? I used to live in an area like that were there were tons and tons of hot young things running around and guys didn't seem to give a damn and yes, that is how it is. Most of them have looks but not much else. Some of the ones I knew grew some smarts and turned into women by the time they were 24-25 but most did not and I feel sorry for the guys that married em. If you ever wonder why a guy with a hot wife has an ugly girlfriend, well, he just wants someone to talk to lol...
phineas Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I'm really beside myself with this. Here I am in the busiest city in the world, with tons of young women showing off their assets and walking the streets all slowly, so to me, that's a cue to make a move so I do. But 9 out of 10 times these dames have no personality whatsoever. I'm the one who has to cut the conversation short. At least I'm hitting them up where most guys just stand there and look or pretend like they don't even see them. Maybe they already know? Yep. I meet very few women both online & off where I'm NOT carrying on both sides of the convo.
tbf Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 Yes, pretty girls have no personality. Feel better now? 3
BoneyHadger Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 But 9 out of 10 times these dames have no personality whatsoever. How can one have no personality? Please elaborate. Or maybe they know what you're going for, are not interested and therefore intentionally hide it to avoid opening up to you? 3
sillyanswer Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 But 9 out of 10 times these dames have no personality whatsoever. I'm the one who has to cut the conversation short. I'm guessing that at least a few of those times they're just not interested and so aren't going to hold an engaging conversation even though they really do have a personality. But anyway... at least you're finding women you want to approach and then actually approaching them, which is more than many of the guys on here. They'll hate you for it. 1
Emilia Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I'm really beside myself with this. Here I am in the busiest city in the world, with tons of young women showing off their assets and walking the streets all slowly, so to me, that's a cue to make a move so I do. But 9 out of 10 times these dames have no personality whatsoever. I'm the one who has to cut the conversation short. Lots of young ones don't have a fully developed personality, regardless of sex. In other news, the Earth is round. This is what happens when you can't keep up with your own age group OP.
phineas Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 How can one have no personality? Please elaborate. Or maybe they know what you're going for, are not interested and therefore intentionally hide it to avoid opening up to you? More than likely, they're picking up the douchebag, "I'm a PUA tool who thinks he can have any woman he wants" vibe off you.. Just sayin'. These are possibilities when out on the prowl, but I'm actually referring to women I go out on dates with that are from OLD. When i message them I usually get "LOL!" or something along those lines back. I ask questions. They ask none. I assume they just arn't into me but ask for a number anyways. Then I talk to them & they have NOTHING to talk about or talk about their ex, or shopping. (srs) I think maybe they are just nervous. So I meet them and yes, they really are this boring. They have no interests at all. It could be my age. I meet a lot of attractive women who were married for 15-20yrs & now divorced so that could be it. Maybe we just arn't clicking but I do meet some women with awesome personalities but the majority act like it's my job to entertain them.
Emilia Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 When i message them I usually get "LOL!" or something along those lines back. I ask questions. They ask none. I assume they just arn't into me but ask for a number anyways. Then I talk to them & they have NOTHING to talk about or talk about their ex, or shopping. (srs) I think maybe they are just nervous. So I meet them and yes, they really are this boring. They have no interests at all. It could be my age. I meet a lot of attractive women who were married for 15-20yrs & now divorced so that could be it. Maybe we just arn't clicking but I do meet some women with awesome personalities but the majority act like it's my job to entertain them. The only thing I can say phineas is that you have been posting about the very same thing for years. The only common denominator appears to be you. I meet lots of very different men. Why don't you meet lots of very different women? What are you attracted to? Bimbos? Drama? 1
Mr_Flay Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I know a girl like this. She's got Zooey Deschanel looks, but is completely empty. No hobbies, no skills, no particular interests (except her dog, which she can talk about for hours on end). She does have an active social life, though, but clubbing seems to be the high point of her week. All she talks about is "last Saturday night one of my friends did this..." or "on Saturday night in the club my friend said that...". Every single one of her stories concerns either something funny her friends did/said or the aforementioned dog. Like an empty observer of the world, as if on TV – she always has something to share, but it's always about others. She's pretty though, and always has a boyfriend. 1
Mr_Flay Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 When i message them I usually get "LOL!" or something along those lines back. I ask questions. They ask none. I assume they just arn't into me but ask for a number anyways. Then I talk to them & they have NOTHING to talk about or talk about their ex, or shopping. (srs) I think maybe they are just nervous. So I meet them and yes, they really are this boring. Yeah, OLD is full of those. They think it's like this: your job is to charm and entertain them, tell stories and jokes, while their only job is to smile and encourage you to tell more stories by writing "LOL"! It's what they're used to. If you jump through enough hoops, maybe they'll let you have sex with them. I suggest you avoid boring people on OLD; they're empty and won't be much more fun in real life. I sometimes ask them, "Here on OLD, do they charge you by the word, is that why you type so little?" I only get another "LOL". 1
CryForNoOne Posted May 10, 2013 Posted May 10, 2013 I sometimes ask them, "Here on OLD, do they charge you by the word, is that why you type so little?" I only get another "LOL". That's a good one. If I ever return to OLD I'm going to borrow that line...
Author Shaun-Dro Posted May 10, 2013 Author Posted May 10, 2013 Maybe you come across as socially awkward & they are not interested in having a conversation with you. Did you bother to read the post or just want to be a smart ass? Because if so, go someplace else.
reptilelover88 Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 It's the same with some men, believe me. The answer is for all of us to work at becoming good conversationalists (listening more than talking) and developing hobbies - even if they seem like very minor things - that are interesting to discuss. Even just reading a newspaper online each day will broaden your discussion topics. Having said that, you can't carry a conversation alone and if the other person is truly hopeless/uninterested/painfully shy, it won't work, and that's not your problem.
phineas Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 The only thing I can say phineas is that you have been posting about the very same thing for years. The only common denominator appears to be you. I meet lots of very different men. Why don't you meet lots of very different women? What are you attracted to? Bimbos? Drama? They find me. In real life, on OLD sites and now apparently on internet forums.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but most ugly girls have bad personalities too.
phineas Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Yeah, OLD is full of those. They think it's like this: your job is to charm and entertain them, tell stories and jokes, while their only job is to smile and encourage you to tell more stories by writing "LOL"! It's what they're used to. If you jump through enough hoops, maybe they'll let you have sex with them. I suggest you avoid boring people on OLD; they're empty and won't be much more fun in real life. I sometimes ask them, "Here on OLD, do they charge you by the word, is that why you type so little?" I only get another "LOL". Yep. These are the type of women for the most part on OLD. And I have said something similar about the "riveting reparte' " after she said LOL for like the 3rd time. i'm ready to hang up my profiles again and hit the free summer concerts.
Noproblem Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Oh give me a break will you! I mean you can't really know a personality from 1 minute to 2 speaking with a strange girl NO, No, no! A personality shows by time!
tbf Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 They find me. In real life, on OLD sitesI also interact with many different men in real life and in cyberspace. As an example, you're a very different individual than say ThaWholigan or johan. I'm a very different individual from Imperfectionisbeauty and Leigh. So why is every woman you meet the same? and now apparently on internet forums.That was uncalled for. Emilia is far from being a bimbo with no interests and no personality. So this circles back to you. Maybe you can link a celebrity interview of the type of woman you're looking for, that you consider full of personality. 3
Revolver Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 This may sound crazy but when your a young attractive woman there's no real incentive for you to develop or have a great/interesting personality. People are going to like you regardless 4
phineas Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 I also interact with many different men in real life and in cyberspace. As an example, you're a very different individual than say ThaWholigan or johan. I'm a very different individual from Imperfectionisbeauty and Leigh. So why is every woman you meet the same? That was uncalled for. Emilia is far from being a bimbo with no interests and no personality. So this circles back to you. Maybe you can link a celebrity interview of the type of woman you're looking for, that you consider full of personality. Did I say EVERY woman? Did I say they were ALL the same. I'm pretty sure I didn't. I'm fairly certain however that so far two women from LS seem to have reading comprehension problems or just take my comments as a personal insult for some reason. I'm dying to see how many more do also. 1
tbf Posted May 11, 2013 Posted May 11, 2013 Maybe you can link a celebrity interview of the type of woman you're looking for, that you consider full of personality. I'm fairly certain however that so far two women from LS seem to have reading comprehension problems or just take my comments as a personal insult for some reason.Your responses are quite emotionally violent. You've got a lot of anger inside of you and any criticism or perceived criticism flames it to hot. Are you like this in real life, over-reactionary? Can you answer the above question? It was ignored.
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