sully35rq Posted September 25, 2004 Share Posted September 25, 2004 I live in texas and my girlfriend lives in Ma, we have been seing each other for 4 months now!! I am currently in the Army and getting out next month!! my problem is my girlfriend cant handle this seperation!! we are both 32 and have children!! I am on my way up there to see her oct 8th!! for a week to look for a place to live and get my daughter enrolled in school!! I will be staying at her place for that week!! we love each other very much!! but she has this other guy that she works with, a younger man!! says he is really good looking!! and she has gone out to lunch with him!! she just told me this today!! I have told her not to hold anything back!! to be honest with me and open!! she says that she loves me very much, but she really wants to do something with this guy!! if you all know what i mean!! she has told him about me, but he still does'nt back off!! my question is!! I love her very much and I do not want to keep her from anything!! I told her that I do not own her, and that I can not tell her what to do!! she knows that i will be up there in one week!! but why is she saying these things to me??? telling that he is gorgeous and would want him!! I am very confused!! is she trying to test me to see if i get jelous or what not!! I told when I am up there we will test the waters and if things go good then we can continue the relationship, but if she wants to pursue this guy for one thing, should i let her go??? me and her connect very well together all of our children get along great!! she has told me that this is what she has been wanting for a long time!! but I am afraid since she has been dumped abused and cheated on before in all of her past relationships, she is prob thinking that I might do the same to her!! How can I reassure her that I am real about my feelings for her??? Link to post Share on other sites
krbshappy71 Posted September 25, 2004 Share Posted September 25, 2004 Is there a way to disable your exclamation point key? Sounds like she is playing games. Don't put up with it or you will have to get used to it. Tell her it bothers you and ask her to stop brining him up. If she doesnt' respect that, then keep your eyes wide open because this is only the beginning to this behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
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