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Is there a such thing called "Ex-Girlfriend Curse" Need Some Advice!!


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Well, here's my situation, you see, me and my ex-girlfriend have been separated for like 8 months now. She cheated on me, so we broke up!! ever since we broke up , ive been seeing or dating new girls!! why is it that ive been having bad luck finding someone, i mean the girls ive gone out with are not looking 4 a man, or they dont have time 4 one, could this be a ex-girlfriend curse? also, why is it that when i go out with these girls, all of sudden i start to think about my ex-girlfriend? yesterday, i saw my ex-girlfriend at my friends house, and man, all of sudden all of those feelings that i have 4 her came back, and now i think about her more and more!! so what can i do in order to stop thinking about her, or am i going to always think about her? need some advice right quick.

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Seems like there are a lot of women out there who aren't looking for serious relationships. It has nothing to do with you. I doubt you're cursed, unless your ex is a gypsy. She isn't a gypsy is she?

 

As far as your feelings for her coming back, I think that's the way it goes. Either you'll have to wait for time to fix it, or it will get fixed when you fall for someone else.

 

Hang in there.

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Your feelings where bound to come back, she is somthing you cant have so off course you want it. Many girls dont want to get serios because they dont want to get hurt. Then there is te guys that are afraid to get serious so they run from there girlfriends. As for the curse thing may be its just a coincidence. You wwill find the right girl, in due time.

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If you must think about your ex-girlfriend, try to think about how she cheated on you. Think about how she has proved to you that she is not responsible enough to uphold the basic foundations of a relationship. Remember how she ripped the trust you had placed in her to shreds. Remember those things.

 

As far as meeting new people goes, do not do this until you are truly ready. Perhaps you need to immerse yourself in other hobbies, spending time with friends, or what have you, before you are fully recovered from your ex. When you do go back to dating, remember that it usually involves meeting quite a few of the "wrong" people before you find someone very good.

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