BlondieGal Posted May 11, 2013 Share Posted May 11, 2013 Hi all, I'm new here. First I want to say that I'm in an open marriage so my husband and I have relationships outside our marriage. One of my long time boyfriends of almost a year recently decided he wanted a girlfriend. That was fine I just told him all along to give me plenty of notice so we could have closure to our relationship. Well he got impatient and it didn't quite work out that way. We remain friends and still talk and he has mentioned to me that she has jealousy issues. Yet he makes posts on Facebook like life is a bowl of cherries with her. He still sees me and we have fooled around but we haven't had sex since he started seeing her. I think it will happen though because he wants to see me next week. My problem is he hasn't come out and said he still wants me on the side and I want to ask but I still want to be able to see him so I kind of just want to go with the flow. Also the friend side of me thinks he's moving way too fast with her but I know I probably just need to keep my mouth shut in that regard. I appreciate any input! Link to post Share on other sites
Praying4Peace Posted May 11, 2013 Share Posted May 11, 2013 Are you not okay with him having a girlfriend or only because the new girlfriend isn't okay with it so it endangers the current situation? Everytime a new person gets added to the mix, they get a vote... Link to post Share on other sites
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