babyfacexox Posted May 11, 2013 Share Posted May 11, 2013 so ive been going out with my bf for about 2 months were really into each other both our family and friends know about us, anyways so my bf introduced me to his cousins at a wedding event and one of his cousins and i have inside jokes we sit and laugh and get along really well at the begining i did not like him at all .. he came across as a big flirt and my bf would get really jealous when his cousin would talk to me .. but now when im with my bf i would see in the corner of my eye that he seems to stare at me and when i look he seems to look down :/ and when my bf says how much he loves me he would change the subject straight away im not so sure why.. on fb he would comment silly things on my bfs status's as i am tagged i will reply and then our retarded silly conversations would start again.. today my bf got a call from him and we were talking on three way, before he hung up he said goodbye darling to me .. my bf got mad at him after he hung up, im not sure if he likes me or trying to make my bf jealous or if his just playing a game .. its sort of worring its not that i dont trust myself. i dont really know him that well .. and i dont want him coming on to me in anyway. i really respect and love my bf (his my best friend) please help so i can asses the situation and maybe stay away from my bfs cousin. Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted May 12, 2013 Share Posted May 12, 2013 (edited) i dont want him coming on to me in anyway. i really respect and love my bf (his my best friend) please help so i can asses the situation and maybe stay away from my bfs cousin. He's a trouble maker and has no respect for you or your boyfriend. You're not only letting him get away with it- you're encouraging him by interacting. Don't go near him, don't engage him on FB or anywhere else. If he persists when you're around other people, a well-placed comment about a small package will probably shrink is oversize ego and relegate him to the background. Edited May 15, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed profanity 2 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 First how would you know the cousin is staring at you unless you were looking at him also. Then stop all of the inside joking because you are acknowleging that he has an interest in you. Stop worrying about whether he likes you and completely ignore him. If you know this makes your bf insecure you should be doing everything in your power to nip it. The next time he says something flirty to you tell him to stop it because it makes you uncomfortable. Link to post Share on other sites
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