jerryinva Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Well..she came by and got her cell phone. She actually didn't even come in...she had me come out to her truck, and her daughter was with her...and bring it to her. She then asked me to sit for a minute and chat...so I sat in the backseat, but didn't really say much of anything. At one point her cell rang...and at first I wasn't sure if it was the 54 year old, or her ex-fiance. I think it was her ex-fiance. She mentioned earlier that she wasn't feeling well..and when I asked her what she meant, she said nevermind, I am sorry I said that. That tells me something is weighing heavy on her mind. So, he (the ex-fiance) was supposed to go by her house. She commented after a few minutes that she needed to go...and her daughter asked if I was coming along too. She looked at me...and then looked away at her daughter, and said "no, I have other plans for tonight." That was my cue to go...so I got out and said bye. She kept asking me if I was ok...and I replied yes each time....even though I knew the trip was still on....and it was breaking my heart. But now...there is no more NEED for contact...I have given her back her property... Feeling sad and lonely tonight... A friend of mine told me on the phone a while ago..that his ex is responding well to the no-contact thing...which I told him about.... for instance, she just IM'd him, and he ignored it, so she has called three times. I said, at least she is calling you...he said so is yours...I said, the difference is, yours is probably not getting married. He said...you don't know that...but, good point. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 jerryinva, do you EVER read replies to your posts? Can you explain why you are STILL stuck on this non-relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
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