Tashikie Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Hey Let me give the back story real quick just so you understand where I'm coming from. My first girlfriend and went out for 2 and a half years, and it went great. There were seriously no major problems during the whole thing. Near the end of the relationship, she starts hanging out with these 2 guys from work I didn't know. I didn't care, since I trusted her with my heart. A month after she started hanging out with them, one of them IMs me on AIM and lets me know that she gaves him a blowjob...in graphic detail. He only told me because he thought I knew. I broke down. I mentioned it to her, and she denied it, she lied about the whole thing. Then I copied and pasted what he said, and she admitted it. She gave that kid head and the other kid she's been kissing and making out with. I had to break it off, needless to say. Well here I am 2 years later going out with the girl I think might be the one. I've never felt anything like this for anyone. But.... recently, she's been talking to her ex-boyfriend she went out for 2 years. Now, she told me before that her only 2 boyfriends she had in the past, she cheated on, but she promises me she will never cheat on me. I want to be able to trust her, but it's just that my first girlfriend really messed things up for me. She hangs out with her ex-boyfriend when I'm in work all the time. It just scares me also that she had a very sexual relationship with him. I think it's logical that I feel this way, and I've talked to her about it. She re-assures me and everything, but I feel if I bring it up again, I'll start to get on her nerves. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 A commited relationship shouldn't involve an 'ex'. How would she like it if you were becoming close to your ex? If she can't change...you either deal or leave. Link to post Share on other sites
Hurt Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Read my story, I broke up with her after I told her is was bothering me, she kept calling and seeing him, there is no room for an ex! You are in the present. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 Make her lose the ex. It's that simple. Link to post Share on other sites
Blackmanx Posted October 2, 2004 Share Posted October 2, 2004 You are playing with fire. If an ex-boyfriend wants to become a lady's new best friend, unless he suddenly turned homosexual (if he is straight or bisexual, watch out !) he wants a piece of the action. He wants it. She's got it. He's gonna talk her into dropping the panties. Let her know you're leaving her....pronto. peace. Link to post Share on other sites
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