JuneJulySeptember Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 Well, again, it has a lot more to do with just the height. The truth is, I just... I don't understand why I'm not "attractive", I don't understand how I can be almost 25 and never have dated. I consider myself to be pretty smart (albeit, a bit naive about a lot of things), and very mature for my age. I take care of myself, and don't rely on others to do so for me. I'm very gentlemanly, but I don't bend over for backwards and be a "doormat" for people to take advantage of me. I'm trustworthy and dependable, and I never do anything to intentionally hurt anyone. I may be a bit on the quiet and reserved side, but on the rare occasions I find people I actually connect with, I ease up on that. I mean, I'm not trying to make myself sound like this great, amazing person, or anything like that, but I just don't see any major red flags in my personality that should deem me "unattractive". This leads me to the conclusion that maybe it really is all about my looks. Maybe girls really completely ignore any and all of my good qualities simply because I don't look like a "man". I would say that you probably range anywhere from average to unattractive based on your story. It's hard for average guys to stand out sometimes if they have just OK personalities. Average looking women with just OK personalities can do a lot better. I suffer from the same things as you. Just keep at it I guess. And read my tips on approaching women in the right manner to reduce your bitterness. Link to post Share on other sites
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