somedude81 Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 I'm 44 now. Before I even started working out I used to tease one girl, she probably wanted to date me but I never asked her because she changed hair styles like no tomorrow and on top of that she smoked. After her I got a self confidence, I started being humorous with customers, started working out (weight lifting and biking). Yes in my early 30's. I had some health issues back then. Growing up I was extremely shy and didn't have any self confidence due abuse. I just want to make sure that you didn't get any attention from women before your early 30's. I'm assuming that the women were the same age as you or older. That would tie into the theory that the older women get, the more they lower their standards and want to settle down with a stable guy. I'm 31, 5'6 and I have gotten basically no attention from women at all. Though that may be because I am working on my undergrad and have no exposure to women older than 23. Perhaps if I was around women my age they may be interested in settling for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Xinreeki Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 (edited) Would you really want to be with a woman that's only with you because she feels she has no choice? Spot on!! And I'm sure that is exactly how a lot of supposedly "below your league" women feel (not that I really believe in "leagues", I think everyone is attracted to different things and different people). But I don't think anyone really wants to be with some desperate guy who is only asking them out because they feel like they have no choice! Then why don't we do something about it. Maybe if we get enough incel guys to fight back against these behaviors from women, then maybe we can fix the dating world. We need guys who go out and punish women for being stupid. We should not allow women to behave like this. I am glad that there are places like the middle east and asia who know how to keep women in their place Gees louise!! I think I know why you aren't attracting any women. **Hides and shivers** Seriously though, most women are VERY perceptive when it comes to mood and attitude. And I'm sure many are able to pick up on your blatantly negative vibes from a mile away, even if you do try and hide your bad mood, desperately negative attitude and hatefully bitter thoughts just below the surface. Yikes. You are a scary guy. **Returns to hiding place** Edited May 14, 2013 by Xinreeki Link to post Share on other sites
joystickd Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 Has he gone after women less attractive than him? I highly doubt it even though he says he has. That's how a lot of women get relationships, they go for someone below their league. Maybe he should try it sometime if he's on the verge of breaking the law to get a girl!! Actually a lot of men do. I know when I was going though my rough period I got rejected by women that looked way less attractive than me. Men it's usually women in general not just the attractive ones. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 Not really I had a 15 to 16 year old girl call me a hottie back then. I also had a 16 year old girl trying to go out with me. I need to move to where you live. Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 If I have to go to the middle east and buy a wife from a family, I will do that. You were talking about buying a wife last October. This sounds like a more detailed plan - are you actually going to do it this time? Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 If you met me face to face, you would not notice my frustrations. Making friends has been easy for me, so it is not my personality. Is my height of 5 feet a major factor? Well, you're very short for an adult. About 4 inches shorter than the average adult woman, too. You've made plenty of other threads about height, though, so I won't go into details. Just re-read some of those. Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 Buy yourself a short Asian mail-order bride and freakin be DONE with it. Good God. He could probably get a tall Asian mail-order bride just as easily. But seriously though, OP, if you are white, you might do well to travel to southeast Asia to find someone and possibly live there. There are a couple of contractors out here who have Asian wives...and they live like kings (e.g., in Thailand, Phillipines, etc.). Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 but I have gotten dozens of rejections recently. I am able to get numbers, but nothing forms from it. They will almost always not respond. Dozens... recently. Can you give an idea of how often you're approaching women, that's a little less vague than that? Dozens this week? this month? this year? Where are you approaching these women? Describe what happens, what you say etc. What do you do once you've got a number? How quickly do you call them? Link to post Share on other sites
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