Drseussgrrl Posted May 16, 2013 Share Posted May 16, 2013 This is the perfect example of why the truth hurts. All of you are right and it is so painful to hear that I wasn't good enough for him, that he is laughing at me, that he doesn't care, that he used me, that he never loved me. That f.cking hurts. I'm not kidding. I'm going to take some time away. I really need it. My heart hurts too much right now. I just want to go to bed. Thanks for the advice everyone. Case closed. YNL - I think the common theme with your threads and posts is that you feel you are a victim. You haven't taken responsibility for your life. If you had loved yourself from the get-go you wouldn't have hung on past the first month. It's like you thought you could change him. You can't. Eventually you'll get to a point where "love' for you is not waiting, hoping, twisting yourself into a pretzel and wanting to be good enough. You already are. A woman who really loves herself does not think that love is something to be earned. It happens naturally and it's beautiful, and it's committed. I guess I'll just never understand why you hung on to someone who couldn't even be bothered to buy you a birthday present. THAT is what everyone wishes you would focus on - NOT HIM. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author youngnlove89 Posted May 16, 2013 Author Share Posted May 16, 2013 YNL - I think the common theme with your threads and posts is that you feel you are a victim. You haven't taken responsibility for your life. If you had loved yourself from the get-go you wouldn't have hung on past the first month. It's like you thought you could change him. You can't. Eventually you'll get to a point where "love' for you is not waiting, hoping, twisting yourself into a pretzel and wanting to be good enough. You already are. A woman who really loves herself does not think that love is something to be earned. It happens naturally and it's beautiful, and it's committed. I guess I'll just never understand why you hung on to someone who couldn't even be bothered to buy you a birthday present. THAT is what everyone wishes you would focus on - NOT HIM. I won't ever understand either! TRUST ME. But I'm moving forward now. Went to the gym today, been going this whole week and I feel so good! It's nice to look at all the eye candy too! To be honest I just spent 2 hours there and it went by so fast. I don't think about him at all! But then I get in my car and it hits me, he is gone. But I'm okay. I'm looking forward... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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