aisuru Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 (Sad to say, I do have some, yes....! ) LOVE IT! Efficiency at it's finest! Somehow, I'm not surprised in the least... Link to post Share on other sites
Author ChelleBelle08 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Share Posted May 22, 2013 I do believe im in the "second chances" forum, as in we discussed trying to fix things.. everyone jumps to the "stop talking immediately and forever" part. im looking to fix things..not move on..I feel like i will be back with him. Usually i don't feel this way. despite the horrible things that are happening now, it wasn't that way when we were together.i made things difficult..as did he. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 Yeah. Take a good long look at the 'second chances' forum and see how many of those really worked.... The statistics speak for themselves. The odds are NOT in your favour. We're all here giving you advice that we know is tried, tested and works.. You're insisting that what you want to do, is best. We're speaking to you from 'the head'. You are insisting we're wrong, from 'the heart'. What you want will not happen, what you most desire will never be. This relationship does not have a good prognosis. Still, it's perfectly clear l am 'wasting my breath', so you go your sweet way, and I will still be here at your next thread...... To help pick up the pieces. Link to post Share on other sites
na49 Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 I do believe im in the "second chances" forum, as in we discussed trying to fix things.. everyone jumps to the "stop talking immediately and forever" part. im looking to fix things..not move on..I feel like i will be back with him. Usually i don't feel this way. despite the horrible things that are happening now, it wasn't that way when we were together.i made things difficult..as did he. You are in the "Second Chances" forum, if you're discussing fixing things, what's the hold up? Are you fixing things? How are you fixing things? and are you actually fixing things or waiting for him to tell you that things are fixed? When my ex came knocking and was asking me to get back together with her it was 6 months after breaking up with me and 5+ months of NC on my end. 5+ months of me thinking she'd never be back (but wanting her back), and 5+ months of me trying my best to work on myself. I'm not making an excuse for my own situation, but I'd like to think the more "space" you have apart, the better chance you will have at being successful the second time. If you're so independent, it's time to be independent for a while. Rushing back into things is a terrible idea so soon after the BU. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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