Husband is too freaking touchy!!!

[FolderWife]

Last night, we were at his uncle's to watch the football game. I was hungry, so I asked him and his uncle if they wanted something. They gave me their orders, and I went and picked it up. When I got home, his uncle's son was there. Hubby asked me if I got him anything. I said no, because I didn't know he was there, and my husband looked at me like I was slime, and refused to eat until his cousin had something. His uncle tried to smooth things, and said that they don't get someone food, unless they are there. My husband remained stubborn, and was rude to me. Later, while I was eating my burger, he came to the dining area to get his burger, and said, "Have fun eating alone." I got so angry, and I said, "I didn't know he was here!" He said," Well, you don't know anything!" I said, "YOu didn't know he was here either! If you had, you would've told me to get him something!" I was so angry, so I left. My uncle told me to call when I got home, and when I called, hubby apologized, and I came back.

 

Today, I had to give my husband a ride home. He is HORRIBLE to drive around, because he sits and tells me how to drive. About 4 miles from our home, he reaches over and touches the underside of my arm, to make it jiggle....insinuating that I'm fat, as far as I'm concerned. I said, "What did you do that for?" he said, "I don't know." Then, a minute later, he asked, "Where are you going to eat at?" I had taken my lunch to take him home, so I hadn't eaten yet, and said, "I don't know..." he said, "Go to Subway."

 

I made a face, because first he jiggles my arm, then he tells me to go to subway for lunch. He got shocked, and said, "WHAT?" I said, "First you jiggle my fat, then you tell me to eat at subway!" He said, "I wanted subway!...I hate being around you!"

 

I thought he wanted ME to eat low fat, because he asked ME where I was going to eat. I didn't know he wanted me to get us both something

 

So when I got home, I said, "I love you." But he got out of the car, and slammed the door.

 

What does he EXPECT!!!??! He jumps on to me about everything..from hitting the breaks to slow, to eating to much! So what else am I supposed to think but that he's throwing off on me with everything he says. So when I finally make a face, or say something, he gets angry!!!

 

I'm a hair away from calling and chewing him out. I didn't HAVE to give him a ride home. I didn't HAVE to get him anything to eat last night.

 

There's a whole list of him being selfish and ingrateful lately that I'm not in the mood to go into right now, but JEESH!!!

[binturong]

Wow, it sounds like HE was PMSing. I'm sorry you had a rough couple of days. Maybe after you both calm down a little bit, you can discuss it rationally. I don't think you did anything wrong and I don't understand why he thinks he needs to police every move you make.