littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 I think my ex cheated on me b4 we split up , shes told me shes with someone else now an we only been split up a few days. I know i gotta let go of her, i just cant stop thinking how much shes hurt me Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 Originally posted by littleandy I think my ex cheated on me b4 we split up , shes told me shes with someone else now an we only been split up a few days. I know i gotta let go of her, i just cant stop thinking how much shes hurt me Andy... dang! I'm sorry... what a crummy way to find out (not that there is really a good way) Best thing I can say, is IF she had been cheating on you even BEFORE the split up, then for real (although it hurts) good ridence you know? This is still pretty fresh... a few days isn't nearly long enough to have let go of feelings.... so I do understand that you're still feeling the sting... Hang in there:) Link to post Share on other sites
Author littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Author Share Posted September 28, 2004 Thanx Merin2 i am tryin , but the way she is with someone so soon makes me feel like she never really cared an it does hurt still lots.But true i am better off without her if this is the way she is COLDHEARTED Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 Well I can certainly understand how you feel... again it's only been a few days, and as much as I would like to say that you will be all good to go by tomorrow.... you won't. Yes, you are better off without someone who would do something like that to begin with.... but again, you can't just cut off what you feel.... right now you are grieving for the loss.... this is a hard thing to go through... Stay busy and keep thinking, that you deserve better, because ya do! Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 Originally posted by littleandy I think my ex cheated on me b4 we split up Well thank God you split up, eh? Even more of a reason to get over her quickly. Stay bizzy. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 Honey, please get tested for STDs. Link to post Share on other sites
Author littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Author Share Posted September 28, 2004 savethedrama4yrmama thats another thing i been worryin about ive only ever had intercourse with her but i know she had a few partners b4 me, and if she did meet him b4 we split who knows hey im just a lil scared i guess.she dont even know how all this has made me feel.Im tryin 2 stay busy , damn ive never done so much cleaning lol i even cleaned the bathroom out this evening Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 Yeah, she could have transmitted something to you that she had before your relationship, but especially if she cheated on you. Just think of the relief you'll feel when the results come back clean as they most likely will. But you still need to be tested. Don't be afraid. Good for you on cleaning, stay busy. This isn't pleasant but it is going to make you stronger. Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 This isn't pleasant but it is going to make you stronger. I agree. It might take awhile, but you'll get over her. My ex cheated before he broke up with me, too. He said he didn't, but the day after it was over, he had a new girlfriend, and things were pretty serious between them. Funny thing is, his girlfriend did the same thing to her boyfriend at the time. They're still together (as far as I know), but it doesn't really hurt anymore. Now when I think of him I just get this empty feeling inside, but hopefully that will go away soon, too, and I won't think about him at all:). Just stay busy, go out and have fun with your friends. You don't need to stay sad over what she did. If she is the kind of person that does that, be glad you're rid of her. Go get tested for STD's, then you can put her out of your life. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Author Share Posted September 28, 2004 [color=blue]Thanx 4 your replies people its my first day on here , but i really like hearing other peoples opinions +reading everyone elses probs makes me realise its not just me an i WILL get over her [/color] Link to post Share on other sites
Naive Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 Originally posted by littleandy I think my ex cheated on me b4 we split up , shes told me shes with someone else now an we only been split up a few days. I know i gotta let go of her, i just cant stop thinking how much shes hurt me Well it's over now either way, why hurt yourself anymore? If she did she obviously did not care for you enough Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 Whenever a guy dumped me, I mourned for one day, felt better the next day, and met someone else the third day. I did this with......5 boyfriends. The relationships only lasted about 2 months apeice though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author littleandy Posted September 28, 2004 Author Share Posted September 28, 2004 We had been together about 1 an a half yrs tho she wanted a baby with me and to get married 2 me, feels like cus i wouldnt move in with her and her family ( long story why i wouldnt ) she didnt want 2 know cus she couldnt get her own way , she was 19 an so i realise now very imature. Link to post Share on other sites
EviL_SmUrF Posted October 1, 2004 Share Posted October 1, 2004 i feel exactly the same way andy. if you want to really read a horrible story (perhaps make yourself feel better lol) read mine. It's pretty much a chronicle of the start of the breakdown of my relationship with my fiance to past the breakup. I keep posting on there just to sorta make myself feel better, and perhaps have other people give me advice on how to get over this, The thread title is "Do I have a right to be jealous?" And hang in there. We'll both get through it I've been keeping myself busy by calling up old ex's of mine and hanging out with them. I know it sounds funny but female companionship really does help you forget the bad things that just happened. Link to post Share on other sites
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