Gunit003 Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 My g/f just left for vacation today. We went camping last week with a couple friends of ours. We ate some mushrooms and then got attacked by raccoons and bears. Everyone started freaking out. So we left, and came back to my place to party some more. I went to class the next day, and let her sleep until I got home. Upon my arrival she was very adimate about me taking her home...she had things to do. She did not talk to me the whole way home, and seemed bitter about something when I got her there. I stayed for about 2 min. and left. She promised that she would call me that. It is now 8 days later and I have not had any communication with her what so ever. I called the house a number of times pretty much begging her to call me so we could talk and I could understand what was going on. She left on vacation today and will be gone for about a week. I am completely in the dark on this on. Everything was good that night, and then the next day everything was changed. Now she is out of town and I do not know if she has broken up with me. If she is cheating on me. I know nothing. What should I do, and is it possible for me to get her back? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 Hmm..... Okay, now think really good here... You left your girlfriend at your house while you went to school... then when you get back, she wants to get the he** out of your house and has nothing to say to you.... She won't return your calls.... Hmmm.... *ME thinks she went through some of your personal belongings and found something she didn't like* BUT, She doesn't want to tell you she was snooping.... So, anything come to mind that she may have found? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gunit003 Posted September 28, 2004 Author Share Posted September 28, 2004 Anything that could be incriminating to is locked up in my safe, which in turn is locked in my rooom. Nobody has access to my room with out two keys which I carry on me at all times. Besides even if she would have gotten into the room, there is nothing in there that would get me in trouble with her. I dont' keep secrets from her. She knows more about me than my boys do. Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 Does she have access to a home computer? Any emails she might've found disturbing? Any porn? A girl's underwear? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gunit003 Posted September 28, 2004 Author Share Posted September 28, 2004 No, computer is locked away in the room. The only porn I have is the porn she bought me. And there would without a shadow of a doubt be another girls underwear anywhere in my house. The only thing that I can not discount is the fact that my room mate is dating my ex, and when she calls to leave messages she does not say a name, only hey baby. That is the only thing I can think of that could have possibly ****ed me in this situation, but she knows that he is dating my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Originally posted by Gunit003 No, computer is locked away in the room. The only porn I have is the porn she bought me. And there would without a shadow of a doubt be another girls underwear anywhere in my house. The only thing that I can not discount is the fact that my room mate is dating my ex, and when she calls to leave messages she does not say a name, only hey baby. That is the only thing I can think of that could have possibly ****ed me in this situation, but she knows that he is dating my ex. Oh an EX.... Possible the EX called and she and your girl had a little chat? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gunit003 Posted September 29, 2004 Author Share Posted September 29, 2004 It is possible but highly doubtful. It was too early in the morning, I was back from class at 10 or there abouts, and not many people I know are up that early, especially my ex. I did however have a chat today with her (my g/f) room mate, and she reminded me that this is her first relationship and that she is scared. Could that have anything to do with this whole thing? I mean if she is scared, why would she not call me? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Originally posted by Gunit003 It is possible but highly doubtful. It was too early in the morning, I was back from class at 10 or there abouts, and not many people I know are up that early, especially my ex. I did however have a chat today with her (my g/f) room mate, and she reminded me that this is her first relationship and that she is scared. Could that have anything to do with this whole thing? I mean if she is scared, why would she not call me? No... I don't think it's fear keeping her from calling you... she seemed to be annoyed or unhappy (from what you've said) when you got back home... not very talkative... and for her to just leave on vacation without a word... no I don't think it's fear driving this girl, it's something else. I'm not going to say that your ex messed things up for you positively.... but even if she wasn't calling for you, she may have been calling for the roommate (as you suggested) and left a message that your gf misunderstood, thinking it was her calling for you, OR maybe your gf answered the phone and said you were not there... what if the EX said something like "I'm suprised he is up this early" not a big deal to most... could have been innocent, but somewhere I think we all don't really dig on the idea of our bf's/gf's EX's being that FAMILIAR with what we deem to be OURS NOW.... especially if this is her first relationship... see what i'm saying? Something has been misunderstood here... so, because she is on vacation (and I will assume you cannot reach her) sit tight until she gets back, then get yourself over to her house to speak with her in person. Simply ask her what's up? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gunit003 Posted September 29, 2004 Author Share Posted September 29, 2004 Merin2, you are something special. Thank you for your insight into this matter. Regaurdless of the outcome here, I will rember what you have said here. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Originally posted by Gunit003 Merin2, you are something special. Thank you for your insight into this matter. Regaurdless of the outcome here, I will rember what you have said here. Awe, Thanks Hope it works out for you;) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gunit003 Posted September 30, 2004 Author Share Posted September 30, 2004 Hey Merin, I just thought I would update the situation. After speaking to her room mate yeterday, I got a suspicion about one of my boys. So I confronted him, and after some aggressive interrogation he squealed like a pig. Apparently he has been ****ing her since that morning after camping and that is why she was acting so weird when I took her home. And it explains why she has not called. Thank you again for your advice on a seemingly worthless endeavor. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 Originally posted by Gunit003 Hey Merin, I just thought I would update the situation. After speaking to her room mate yeterday, I got a suspicion about one of my boys. So I confronted him, and after some aggressive interrogation he squealed like a pig. Apparently he has been ****ing her since that morning after camping and that is why she was acting so weird when I took her home. And it explains why she has not called. Thank you again for your advice on a seemingly worthless endeavor. MG! Noooooo Way! Well, damn! I'm sorry... I'm at least happy you know the truth.... Now I say ditch the "friend" and lose her number Ugh! Don't be suprised when she starts calling you again either... your boy obviously is a dog for real to do that to you... but I'm willing to bet he drops her a** and she will come crying to you... Sorry it turned out this way... but again, happy you know the truth. Link to post Share on other sites
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