snowflakes88 Posted September 4, 2013 Share Posted September 4, 2013 Any man who abandons his child is a piece of crap. And come on -- you're a grown woman who relies on your mother for everything, yet you expect a man to abandon his own child to please you? Do you even see how backwards that is??? Personally, I think this guy is a Catfish who is just jerking you around. It doesn't make sense that a man with a job that sounds less than legit would be okay with dumping his kid, move across the country to be with a woman he's never met who can't even support herself, and on top of all that -- refuses to send you a photo or Skype with you. Nothing sounds good about this situation. At all. Link to post Share on other sites
Author napy666 Posted September 5, 2013 Author Share Posted September 5, 2013 He didn't abandon it the kid and the mom left the country and he was going to still see the kid if the kid was still here. And he is moving out here to be with me and I have seen other photos of him. And he has confirmed me on Skype so everything is falling into place. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted September 6, 2013 Share Posted September 6, 2013 He is not moving to be with you. He is a scam artist who is setting up women. He will eventually be asking you to send him some money, as he needs it for his trip, and to get established in California. He has many other naive women on the hook this way, trust me. Don't dabble with people you haven't met IRL. I hope your mother restricts your access to money. You are in a position to be taken advantage of in a really bad way should you ever actually get out from behind your computer and leave the house. Link to post Share on other sites
Author napy666 Posted September 7, 2013 Author Share Posted September 7, 2013 You were right so I cut him off. I just want to find the special guy for me but I keep running into these losers and *******s. Link to post Share on other sites
snowflakes88 Posted September 8, 2013 Share Posted September 8, 2013 You were right so I cut him off. I just want to find the special guy for me but I keep running into these losers and *******s. You should spend more time focusing on becoming the kind of woman a good man will want. I don't want to be overly critical, but 99.9% of good men are not going to be interested in a grown woman with no job, no education, and no real ambition, who lives off her parents. If you want to attract a quality man, you need to be a quality woman. I'm not calling you a loser, but many would consider your lifestyle as such.... as long as it stays that way, that is what you will attract. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted September 8, 2013 Share Posted September 8, 2013 You were right so I cut him off. I just want to find the special guy for me but I keep running into these losers and *******s. What makes you think you deserve better ? You : - hate kids - have no qualms about going into the mindset 'screw this guy and his kid' - are ok with calling a kid 'it' - jump from guy with kid and criminal conviction to another guy with kid - have an absolute glee in you when you talk about disliking kids [it's ok to not want any, it's just that glee that is weird] I honestly don't know anything about you outside of this thread, of the words you wrote here ... so, are you a nice person ? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author napy666 Posted September 8, 2013 Author Share Posted September 8, 2013 Yes I'm a nice person, I am very loving, caring, faithful not a cheater etc. I just don't like kids, don't drink, smoke, do drugs, or fool around having sex with everyone. Why wouldn't a guy want me? No guys prefer the girls who do those things over me or prefer fat chicks over me even tho i look good and have a good body. Link to post Share on other sites
snowflakes88 Posted September 8, 2013 Share Posted September 8, 2013 Again, most men want a woman who has her life together. You don't want to get yours together, so you'll have to settle for men who don't have theirs together either. Not sure why you don't get that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Criticality Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 The fact that you hate kids also scares away about two thirds of the "good men" out there. And is probably a deadbeat magnet as well. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Criticality Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 And you also want to save sex for marriage?!? While you hate kids... Do you see the problem there? Close to the only people who believe in the whole abstinent till marriage thing are religious people. And religious people tend to believe that marriage (and sex) is primarily for procreation: Aka kids! Just based on those two factors, you've decreased the entire pool of partners you might match with from 50 million to 3! Good luck roping one of those three guys in! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted October 12, 2013 Share Posted October 12, 2013 I want to be serious with him and I just will never accept his kid. There is a seriousness here ...Be respectable and leave the bogus relationship, its already got one kid in it, and you being in it makes two...that's not what a gentleman really wants.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Purepony Posted October 12, 2013 Share Posted October 12, 2013 Again, most men want a woman who has her life together. You don't want to get yours together, so you'll have to settle for men who don't have theirs together either. Not sure why you don't get that. Great advice!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Purepony Posted October 12, 2013 Share Posted October 12, 2013 And you also want to save sex for marriage?!? While you hate kids... Do you see the problem there? Close to the only people who believe in the whole abstinent till marriage thing are religious people. And religious people tend to believe that marriage (and sex) is primarily for procreation: Aka kids! Just based on those two factors, you've decreased the entire pool of partners you might match with from 50 million to 3! Good luck roping one of those three guys in! Haha she scared me away just by reading her thread... Ps Even if you look good have a hot body it's not worth the madness Link to post Share on other sites
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