Meira Posted May 17, 2013 Share Posted May 17, 2013 So I met this musician few months ago. Had a few drinks on the first night, and I wasn't really into the conversation. I went to watch his show the night after, just to show some support, and after the show we went to a bar where we did a lot of flirting and at the end we kissed several times. (it was his last night in town and I totally saw it as a fling) He left the city the day after to continue his music tour. And we had been in touch messaging each other and the conversation somewhat turned very sexual and we would send each other pictures and say lots of sexual stuff. things slowed down a month ago I was set to visit his city (8 hours by air), cause he got a new girlfriend (though he admitted he has cheated several times in past relationships). We went out several times when I was in his home city. He was being quite a gentleman all along. We kissed again at a bar nevertheless but nothing more than that. (and it wasn't alcohol i'm sure) We weren't really in touch with each other after i left his city. Now one month later after we last met, he texted me out of the blue yesterday saying he misses me, that he would love to kiss me again together with a naughty picture. What is he trying to do here? me as a sexting buddy? i just don't understand why he is going through all the fuss to do sexting with me again cause he knows no way we could sleep together(we are in two different continents). And no, we didn't sleep together when I was in his city. Thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
BeholdtheMan Posted May 17, 2013 Share Posted May 17, 2013 Thoughts?He's keeping you around as a potential fu** buddy. This guy probably has several women like you in different cities. His current "girlfriend" was probably one such fu** buddy he elevated to gf status. There's a bunch of women out there who "have a thing" for musicians and will spread their legs with little prompting. I'm pretty certain he's taking full advantage of that and loving it If you're OK with this likely truth, go ahead and have some fun. You can then brag about it to your girlfriends In all seriousness though, I'm not judging. Just explaining the situation as it sounds to me 1 Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted May 17, 2013 Share Posted May 17, 2013 As a former musician, I know exactly what's happening. Guys in bands get tang thrown at them all the time. You're probably attractive and he enjoys the sexual tension. He is not likely looking for anything serious but just some fun. He is also probably showing his band mates the photos you send him. Link to post Share on other sites
sayyes19 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 He's keeping you around as a potential fu** buddy. This guy probably has several women like you in different cities. His current "girlfriend" was probably one such fu** buddy he elevated to gf status. There's a bunch of women out there who "have a thing" for musicians and will spread their legs with little prompting. I'm pretty certain he's taking full advantage of that and loving it If you're OK with this likely truth, go ahead and have some fun. You can then brag about it to your girlfriends In all seriousness though, I'm not judging. Just explaining the situation as it sounds to me This is what it is. If you have sex with him well enough he might make you his wife. Then you can go on all kinds of adventures with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Meira Posted May 18, 2013 Author Share Posted May 18, 2013 This is what it is. If you have sex with him well enough he might make you his wife. Then you can go on all kinds of adventures with him. but the truth is, i have never had sex with him. everything was done via messaging. Link to post Share on other sites
Almond_Joy Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 He could be working on you until he's in town again, figuring the sexting will eventually lead to sex. I agree with the others that he probably develops f*** buddies all over when he's touring. Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 but the truth is, i have never had sex with him. everything was done via messaging. Yeah, and he probably enjoys that too. Link to post Share on other sites
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