L4NOW Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Looking for some advice about the chances of re-gaining a spouse after divorce I was married for 12 years and have 4 children. My x was having an affair and left- he swore at the time there was no one else, however has admitted to adultery. All the signs were there, he lost alot of weight, bought new clothes, worked late- went out from work- I just never thought he would cheat/ or leave. The divorce has been fianl for about 6 mths. I can't seem to get over the loss of my family. I did get the kids, but I hate that they don't have there dad. Any advice on how to get him back- and thoughts on the whole "if you love someone, set them free, if they come back they were yours, if not they never really were" Because I know he was mine and loved me very much. Thanks!! Link to post Share on other sites
Matilda Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Do you have any idea if he would be at all receptive to reconciling? Link to post Share on other sites
Lonestar Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 I'm in the process of reconciling with my ex-husband. Read these three threads for more background: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t47994/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t48560/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t48755/ Link to post Share on other sites
Author L4NOW Posted September 30, 2004 Author Share Posted September 30, 2004 Thanks so much for the links! I know he still loves me and the children, I think he just has to see how much he lost.- your story is so familiar in many ways, the whole call him and he blows you off- but don't and he is calling you- mine works the same way- I can completly relate to your feelings, once you go through a period without them and have some balance its hard to put yourself out there again- thank you for coming back and sharing your story- Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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