Author Magnumresearch Posted June 5, 2013 Author Share Posted June 5, 2013 Im being strong for them because shock is pretty much gone for me. We said we would work out everything out of court because she hasn't a clue of the dirt that I have in her so basically her rn license would go poof. So she's nice now...I just dont want her to turn around and say im filing for full custody which she probably will (can't trust her) because she eluded to it one day by saying"i want better for my kids" and "I deserve better". That wasn't her talking. .that's why I have a private investigator on her right now checking her out. If i see drug evidence im filing for custody. Gotta wait n be patient now.at least ill have an insurance plan just in case. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted June 5, 2013 Share Posted June 5, 2013 Yep! Good deal! Your VAR recording of your WW won't hold up in court. But, a PI report from a Licensed and Bonded Private Investigator will! Good call on getting the PI! Link to post Share on other sites
Calvin's wagon Posted June 6, 2013 Share Posted June 6, 2013 But are you getting legal aid? Someone who will be best equipped to advise you what will and what will not help you in court, what will and what will not hurt you in court/with local enforcement? Best wishes Link to post Share on other sites
Author Magnumresearch Posted June 18, 2013 Author Share Posted June 18, 2013 Well..here I am..a month and a half later thinking the world was destroyed due to this woman destroying my family and me but ya know what?? FUGGIT! You can't keep what doesn't want to stay and I keep finding out more ****. I've layed down my guns..called off the p.i. today..and filed divorce papers. I originally told her if she wants to end it then she should file. Nope. She shows no sign of doing anything like an adult in this matter so I took over. Feels good to lead the charge again. This time totally in my favor and my children's. Im doing what I have to do because frankly she's using my benefits to put I U D'S in her snatch n stuff and that's going to end. I have a beautiful townhouse im moving into on the 7th of july and looking soooooo forward. Plus between all of us in this thread...I've been talking to so many damn women its not funny...there are still more good people in this world than bad because I've been talking to all of em apparently. This divorce thing is more common than I realized. Sad but true. So many hurt people out there while the other half are evil. Karma is a bitch and now that im doing what it takes to end this and reclaim my manhood I feel great. Time heals nothing. ..its what you do with the time that counts and that realization has made me stronger than ever. We really can get past this bull****. My children are my focus now and they know I love them and daddy will always be their daddy and will always be there for them no matter what. Remember. ..living well is the best revenge! Wish me luck! Ill update till its over AND OH one more thing...all the pictures and footage from p.i. iwas gonna make a YouTube video and post to EVERYONE as a parting gift...lol its only fair 1 Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Take no prisoners, your the man. You will soon find out that she was always holding you back, your free to go for it. Link to post Share on other sites
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