bellasue Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 I am sitting here thinking that tomorrow I might stop by his house to talk. I know when the BS leaves for work, so I wouldn't have to confront her. I am not angry......just really want to talk about what transpired. OK....all......I know in my core this is wrong and I shouldn't do it. So make sure I know this by tomorrow! LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Goodbye Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 I am sitting here thinking that tomorrow I might stop by his house to talk. I know when the BS leaves for work, so I wouldn't have to confront her. I am not angry......just really want to talk about what transpired. OK....all......I know in my core this is wrong and I shouldn't do it. So make sure I know this by tomorrow! LOL Bellasue, think it through. What are you hoping for? What will REALLY happen. You probably know the situation well enough to know you aren't going to get what your heart needs to heal. Is it closure you are looking for? I'm not the poster child for NC by any means; I've broken mine. But, I learned from each time I broke NC...the same unsatisfying results. I doubt your MM has changed, or changed his status, right? Distract yourself, read something engaging. This urge will pass. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 I am sitting here thinking that tomorrow I might stop by his house to talk. I know when the BS leaves for work, so I wouldn't have to confront her. I am not angry......just really want to talk about what transpired. OK....all......I know in my core this is wrong and I shouldn't do it. So make sure I know this by tomorrow! LOL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! Don't do it! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 Call a good woman friend and go out for the day. Do something fun, have a spa day. DO NOT drop by his house, DO NOT call him, DO NOT email him, DO NOT text him. Really, if you lived near me, I would tape your hands together, unplug your internet, and take away your car keys! (jokes, and I hope that made you laugh!) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
findingnemo Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 Don't. You may think you just want to talk but you are giving him more of your time. Don't go to his house. This isn't really about him any more. It's about you. Respect yourself first. Treat yourself like someone special. Respectable people don't do certain things...certainly not this. They don't put themselves in compromising situations. From here on out, self control is your best friend. No matter how you feel about him, no matter how hurt you are, your best weapon is self control. Decide what you will and will not do and stick with it no matter what. Link to post Share on other sites
secretlady76 Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 I am sitting here thinking that tomorrow I might stop by his house to talk. I know when the BS leaves for work, so I wouldn't have to confront her. I am not angry......just really want to talk about what transpired. OK....all......I know in my core this is wrong and I shouldn't do it. So make sure I know this by tomorrow! LOL Think of of it this way. He knows where you are. He knows how to get in touch with you. Even if you have bloocked all routes of communication, he can still track you down. He hasn't has he?! If he wanted to then he would have done. That's all you need to know. He isn't looking for you. He isn't knocking your door down, he isn't sending you any messages. Meh, he really is thinking about you a lot, missing you a lot, wanting to see you.........NOT. So remind me again why you want to see him??!!?? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author bellasue Posted May 21, 2013 Author Share Posted May 21, 2013 Ok.....I stepped away from the edge. Thanks everyone! Not only did I think about it a little more after reading your responses, but I got a good laugh in too! This roller coaster ride isn't that fun. I wanna get off! : ) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JPMC Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 At least the internet for once was good for something. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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