Illogical Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 Why do women always say they love my hair? The only reason i ask, is its illogical. I used to keep my hair short, now i just sort of let it grow out, i never comb it, its probably 6-8 inches long, curly, a little messy. I weigh 340, so I know I'm not attractive, and they aren't flirting, I don't really care either. But it has me wondering, why do they think hair that is uncombed, wild looking, is good? The only thing i can think of is, they like reddish/auburn hair, or they have nothing else to compliment me on, but why compliment me in the first place, i don't say anything to them, nor try to. Link to post Share on other sites
DannyMason Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 Maybe they just think it's weird or interesting, or maybe they're being subtly sarcastic. Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 They're complimenting a feature you have that they find attractive. Just take the compliment. Link to post Share on other sites
pcplod Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 (edited) Why do women always say they love my hair? The only reason i ask, is its illogical. I used to keep my hair short, now i just sort of let it grow out, i never comb it, its probably 6-8 inches long, curly, a little messy. I weigh 340, so I know I'm not attractive, and they aren't flirting, I don't really care either. But it has me wondering, why do they think hair that is uncombed, wild looking, is good? The only thing i can think of is, they like reddish/auburn hair, or they have nothing else to compliment me on, but why compliment me in the first place, i don't say anything to them, nor try to. Why is it illogical? Just because as a "typical male" you don't understand or because as a "typical male" you find it embarrassing, or that you can't accept even a simple, tame complement? Do you think they are just taking the piss? I used to be like that when I was younger, even when I wasn't that much younger. It's a self-esteem problem. You badly need to get over it. Some women like puppies and kittens, and some like men's hair. Consider yourself lucky that you seem to have something going for you. I have had women, who I know, spontaneously stroke my hair when I am down in my local. They like the tactile sensation of it. I like it too! I've had quite a few women tell me that they like my voice when I have spoken to them on the phone on business matters, even had one or two tell me it was sexy. I've never assumed that meant that they wanted to get into my pants as a result, just that they are uninhibited about expressing themselves. Mind you, I would love to be able to bring the two things together and make them work for me in a practical sense. I can't see the harm in thinking about that. Edited May 21, 2013 by pcplod Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 I dated a guy who was 350 pounds. He was pretty tall, too, but I found him very attractive. I LOVE accents, particularly various British ones, and I love things like nice hair on a guy. Weird things turn me on, I guess. Just take it as a compliment. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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